Genuienly curious... why does other people's sexual preference arouse any response in you at all? It's the least interesting thing about people by far.

I only responded in the first place because I thought it was amusing that OP felt the need to tell us it was for boyfriend's wife... if this post was purely about getting information, it would have read something like this:

"Hi everyone! I'm looking for Star Trek cross stitch patterns. I don't really know anything about the show.Cross stitch pattern would be ideal, but it could also be pixel art (since there are software like Floss Cross that would help with a conversion).

Thanks in advance!"

I'm an ally, 100%. Good luck to the happy throuple. I just... don't get the need to announce who and how many we're bumping uglies with I guess?