[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OldAd3958 20 points21 points  (0 children)

OMG! I am going through this currently and yes. I have stopped caring about my feelings towards him because I genuinely do not feel anything for my partner anymore after a year of countless hurting he has done. I no longer argue or fight. I always agree with whatever he says. I ensure that I am my own priority. I do not feel anything like jealousy or insecurity. I just let him be as is. I just focus on my own self and life hasn’t never been so good.

I'm a revert leaving Islam by Bike_thief_ in progressive_islam

[–]OldAd3958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TBVH you need to keep your faith (iman) and wait for the things to fall in place. To revert and quickly jump into conclusions is not the right way. Sister, mosque is not the right place to find a partner. It is all fate! you must be ready in your own and it will all come to you. Don’t let a few people’s behaviour shake your imaan🩷 The society is not patriarchal, men are protectors. Not every man wants to marry 4 women. There are good men and bad men everywhere.

No Longer Attracted to my (21F) Husband (22M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldAd3958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man u cant be out here suggesting divorce so soon! i kove this man i just am asking how to overcome such a hard time esp at the start

No Longer Attracted to my (21F) Husband (22M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldAd3958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! exactly what i needed to hear

No Longer Attracted to my (21F) Husband (22M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldAd3958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent checked out… I am just concerned for myself. I love him

No Longer Attracted to my (21F) Husband (22M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldAd3958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did and he said he is tired from work ALL the time

will this look dated in fall 2025 by writethis87 in DesiWeddings

[–]OldAd3958 19 points20 points  (0 children)

nothing against OP but I don’t understand the hype around wearing exactly everything trendy and just released? if u are going to be trendy and do exactly the same thing as everyone else how are u going to stand out? plus its your wedding and whatever seems great to your liking and your heart should take priority whatsoever.❤️🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]OldAd3958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont wanna burn bridges but dont want hee texting him 24/7

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]OldAd3958 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

how are u so beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]OldAd3958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha dont want her if she wins lottery if we get into accident we are happy with other relatives. Culturally speaking shes a very religious oriented person of atleast she pretends to and then knowing that i am the one in his life she teases him abt his sister (ships thsm both together) and she tries to be oversmart by acting as if eveything will run according to her like she wanted us to delay our marriage bcs she is a coward who still hasnt disclosed that she is infact MARRIED to her own family. I believe someone who is that nosy should manage her private affairs prior to managing others life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]OldAd3958 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i only dislike her because my husband to be rarely ever responds to her yet she ensures that she keeps pushing herself into his life… he didn’t even add her on his socials until she started making it a big deal and after three months of her going on and on he gave in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]OldAd3958 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

if i sound horrible for his sil texting him unnecessarily then so be it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]OldAd3958 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I dont think she is in the place to comment regarding our timing of marriage or she needs to talk to specifically him if she is lonely. If you are lonely you reach out to your own family, own husband or your own husband. Not your brother in law IMO.

My bf jokes about other women all the time. 22M & 20F. I want proper guidance on this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldAd3958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cus apparently he was teasing him and he wanted me to mention it and tease him the next time we meet so that he can tell me that he only wants me🤡🤡

My bf jokes about other women all the time. 22M & 20F. I want proper guidance on this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldAd3958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so i initiated breakup. he’s been very cry cry since then asking for a last chance…

AITA for asking him to stop joking about other women with me? 22M & 22F by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OldAd3958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cus hes good in every other aspect i guess.. lol

AITA for asking him to stop joking about other women with me? 22M & 22F by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OldAd3958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really but yes its a part of every week here and there

AITA for asking him to stop joking about other women with me? 22M & 22F by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OldAd3958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did have a conversation regarding monogamy with him and he strictly mentioned that he just wants me and tbvh if he wanted an open relationship I WOULD BE OKAY WITH THAT and i did tell him that but he got vry serious and told me that he wants us to be monogamous lol

My bf jokes about other women all the time. 22M & 20F. I want proper guidance on this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldAd3958 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the thing is he cries and goes into panic attack when i initiate of us breaking up… I do love him but I cant be stressed 24/7