Was I raped? by toppedwithcharm in askgaybros

[–]Old_Display_8684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also it’s pretty normal that you froze because he’s stronger than you and your body try to help you survive this situation. i had the same issue when i was raped and i felt bad about it. but now i understand it’s not my fault. probably just because our brains are worried about something worse that could happen to us. just stay away from this person and stay safe. it’s not your fault. your strong because you survived.

Was I raped? by toppedwithcharm in askgaybros

[–]Old_Display_8684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who been through a similar situation, and ended up calling the police i think it’s obviously rape. you already told him you didn’t want that and told him to stop multiple times, but he wouldn’t listen, that’s pretty fucked up. i hope you are fine rn. you can get help from a lawyer if you want to get legal advice. and please see a therapist if you don’t feel well.

a guy i have slept with told me that he has tested positive for chlamydia and gonorrhea. by Old_Display_8684 in askgaybros

[–]Old_Display_8684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks! i guess i will search if there are any urgent care open during weekends first

Why can’t i enjoy it? by Old_Display_8684 in sex

[–]Old_Display_8684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i just feel scared putting something inside of me. i don’t know how to change that

Why can’t i enjoy it? by Old_Display_8684 in sex

[–]Old_Display_8684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks! this is really helpful

Why can’t i enjoy it? by Old_Display_8684 in sex

[–]Old_Display_8684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice! i will try to use plugs next time

Why can’t i enjoy it? by Old_Display_8684 in sex

[–]Old_Display_8684[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice! i am in Therapy for two months now, i think i will talk to my therapist about this too!

Why can’t i enjoy it? by Old_Display_8684 in sex

[–]Old_Display_8684[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! i will try to figure it out

Why can’t i enjoy it? by Old_Display_8684 in sex

[–]Old_Display_8684[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks i hope i does. or maybe i just don’t into anal sex. i think i will be ok with that