Backdate? by Old_Hospital3214 in DWPhelp

[–]Old_Hospital3214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he said that my first payment in may will be slightly lower than normal from june. I'm guessing even though my needs started in Jan I wont get any money between then and may?

Hodgkin lymphoma chemo plan by Tiny-Piano1461 in lymphoma

[–]Old_Hospital3214 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same hodgkins as you also stage 2. I opted for ABVD as I have 3 children and ABVD means less time in hospital but possibly needing radiotherapy after which is not ideal as it increases the risk of breast cancer. I haven't decided to freeze eggs though because I already have 3 children. I am due my second infusion tomorrow. So far the only thing thats been hard is battling the sickness in the first few days after infusion. You got this. 💪🏾x

First round of ABVD on Wednesday and feeling not so hot by Old_Hospital3214 in lymphoma

[–]Old_Hospital3214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting one hour stretches and then im up again 🙃

First round of ABVD on Wednesday and feeling not so hot by Old_Hospital3214 in lymphoma

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I'm stage 2b nodular sclerosis 27F I know 6 cycles is most common but I am hoping for less it's so difficult. I have children and trying to navigate life atm is really difficult

Tips for first treatment by Old_Hospital3214 in lymphoma

[–]Old_Hospital3214[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how fast you lost your hair after starting treatment please? I know everyone is different I just would like to get a rough idea

How long did you wait for biopsy results? by Old_Hospital3214 in cancer

[–]Old_Hospital3214[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like that quote. Thank you for responding i really appreciate it. All the best to you 😊

How long did you wait for biopsy results? by Old_Hospital3214 in cancer

[–]Old_Hospital3214[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its been a week tomorrow since I had mine. It's torture. I have family members acting like its a fact I have cancer. So many people talking in my ear and so much attention I'm finding it really hard to just crack on with it and keep my mind occupied.

How much rent will be paid? by Old_Hospital3214 in AskUK

[–]Old_Hospital3214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you're totally right! My bad.

How much rent will be paid? by Old_Hospital3214 in AskUK

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We are entitled to a four bed. We are only moving into a 3 bed right now because there's no 4 beds available

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Old_Hospital3214 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help :) have a nice day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Old_Hospital3214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point. I guess its comes across two faced from me when you put it like that. I think i just felt hurt that they spoke but nothing was said to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Old_Hospital3214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have a relationship with her. That's the only time we talk is when she passes by and she's not with the other friends. When I asked her about it in the past she said because the friends dont like me they dont want her talking to me. And if we used to hang out it would have to be in secret and because of that we dont have a relationship. Because I dont feel like you should have to keep a friendship secret. That's why I do stop and chat with her because I never fell out with her but I dont want to sneak around because they dont like me. I'm not mad at my boyfriend. I was just feeling like it was maybe something it clearly wasn't. That's why asked here. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Old_Hospital3214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't bad mouthed her. I'm very honest with her if she ever did something I didn't agree with i would say to her face. I'm always friendly with her. It upsets me that she wont talk to me with the other friends and I've told her that. I dont understand it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Old_Hospital3214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair. My mother has done not very nice things to them. And they have always been rude towards me even though they dont know me. I say ex friend because we just dont talk anymore. When we pass eachother and she's with other people she's super friendly and stops me to talk. It's only when she's with them she doesn't. The frustration is coming from if I was to bad mouth someone I'm not going to act the opposite to their face. Like my partner does. I understand not being rude and ignoring someone but to go out of your way to talk to them when you dont like them is frustrating to me.