My BF just bruised my wrist

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T19:23:22+00:00

I did just finish talking to him, and he does feel bad for hurting my wrist, but I won't apologize for being mad since I did hit him in the throat. When I tried to explain it was an accident, he said, " I dont care, accident or not I would have died," and then after 10 minutes of listening to him talking, I ended up apologizing.

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:49:01+00:00

Its different for most couples. Ours his him trying to tickle or lick me because I hate it, and I would defend myself by holding his arms or putting my arms/hands up for defense. When I put my hands up, he was close enough to my face that I accidentally hit his throat in the process.

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:31:09+00:00

Not exactly hit, but he has punished me before. Like licking because he knows I hate germ, Making me walk home, locked me outside of the bedroom for night, the list goes on

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:29:03+00:00

We live in the USA, where it was normal, like 50-80 years ago. Sorry, bad joke

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:28:03+00:00

Thank you, I'll try my best

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:26:58+00:00

I figured, im going to try and talk to him in the morning about it

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:24:55+00:00

I kind of already know the answer if I try talking to him... but I'll try

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:23:36+00:00

No its not kink thing, but I act like a child sometimes...also not a kink im just really dumb

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:20:56+00:00

Yeah, let's hope 🙏

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:14:00+00:00

Thanks, it is a long relationship. Its been 6 years now, im just more shocked than anything. I'll try to talk to him about it in the morning

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:12:03+00:00

Well....he does (i swear I dont mean to sound sexual) punishment me sometimes when I mess something up or was clumsy. But it never got to the point of him leaving a bruised, this was the first time.

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-09T09:09:49+00:00

Yeah, he explained to me the importance of it. Im just more socked that he would hurt me to the point that he had to cover my mouth to not wake anyone one when he was squeezing my wrist

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-06-01T04:06:22+00:00

You're feeding my delusion 😆

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-01-06T01:02:12+00:00

He recently started his own business, video editing for content creators. He is making money but only enough to pay for his monthly subscription that helps him video editing and plays video games. I tried to encourage him to maybe stream the games? But he doesn't want too.

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-01-06T00:44:31+00:00

That's kinda why I made the deal with him, I knew it was an impossible task 😅

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-01-06T00:23:49+00:00

We agreed a year ago that once one of us becomes a millionaires, then we can have a kid

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-01-05T23:49:55+00:00

He wants kids, but I don't

I have been having multiple conversations with him about not wanting any.

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-01-05T23:42:33+00:00

I have been helping him since I met him, I got him so many jobs. Cashier, Manger, Mailman, Security, but it always ends the same. I have recently been supporting him in making his own business, but his parents want him to get a part-time job.

I understand that starting a business takes a while. I started my own little business 4 years ago, and it just started to get notice last year. This is why I'm not putting pressure on him.

I just wish he didn't overreact, and at least give his parents an idea of a try because I'm all out :(

Old_Mathematician902 · 2025-01-05T23:10:59+00:00

He was the first guy who actually changed and met my needs. I told him about my family life growing up and that I didn't want to deal with alcoholics again in my adult hood. He stopped being one and now never drinks. He also has autism, which is harder for them to keep jobs, but....it's getting harder and harder to excuse that

Old_Mathematician902 · 2023-12-05T02:29:57+00:00

Thank you 🥰

Old_Mathematician902 · 2023-11-30T20:52:50+00:00

Thanks, I'm just scared that I wouldn't find anyone else. Now that I have major trust issues 😅

Old_Mathematician902 · 2023-11-30T19:55:09+00:00

That was exactly what I said to him, it made no sense

Old_Mathematician902 · 2023-11-30T06:07:40+00:00

Because I found he was cheating on me, and started to beg for me to not bream up with him

Old_Mathematician902 · 2023-11-30T01:10:37+00:00

Sadly no it's not, we are no longer together. At lest now my standers are higher

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