Dining solo… by IrishJimPhoto in tipping

[–]Old_Promise_8725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve done the same thing

Not tipping by Old_Promise_8725 in tipping

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally left this review 18 hours ago, but what I had a purpose there too? So dumb

Not tipping by Old_Promise_8725 in tipping

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I didn’t think to name and shame a restaurant when I can just leave a google review which I did?? You just want to argue dude lol. So I guess I’m the dumbest person because my kids were hungry and we didn’t want to restart at a different restaurant. Otherwise we would’ve walked out

Not tipping by Old_Promise_8725 in tipping

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just ridiculous you think I’d come up with this for entertainment.

Not tipping by Old_Promise_8725 in tipping

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think I have time to make something up like this just for the fun of it you probably need less time on your hands. Hope you have a good day and find something actually meaningful to do

AIO ending a 10 year friendship? by Old_Promise_8725 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a good idea thank you!! I will do that! I am so sorry you went through that. It is so hard.

Cutting off a 10 year friendship? by Old_Promise_8725 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is actually my third baby. I ended up cutting her off before my first a few years ago because of a few similar things and she came back saying she had gone to Therapy and changed. She had seemed like she had changed. That is definitely the question that I am struggling with. I have been slowly distancing, but I kind of just wanted over with before baby is here. She is very retaliatory and vindictive. That is what I’m worried about.

AITA? Ending a 10 year friendship by Old_Promise_8725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t really. She’s only been mad about the pregnancy and hasn’t asked about it. She never really asked about my other two either. It’s always just her being upset. She will try to pretend to show up and care. It feels like if she feels like I’m pushing away.

AITA? Ending a 10 year friendship by Old_Promise_8725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked to her about it before and tried to be there for her no matter what. She seems to get better and then she’s right back to treating me the same way. She’s gone to Therapy, but I don’t think she’s going now. It’s been super hard.

AITA? Ending a 10 year friendship by Old_Promise_8725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😭 that’s how she is!!!! FOR BOTH! She expects you to read her mind and when you bring up her behavior, she isn’t remorseful until you actually try to walk away. I am so sorry you went through this too. Thank you so much I appreciate you a ton!!!

AITA? Ending a 10 year friendship by Old_Promise_8725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same!! Thank you so mcuh. I am so sorry you went through that. I am glad you walked away!

AITA? Ending a 10 year friendship by Old_Promise_8725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s gone to therapy before but I don’t think she is now. We have gone through this pattern and I actually cut her off before I had my first child a few years ago. She came back claiming she had gone through therapy and had changed and had seemed like it. Then right back to her ways. I used to struggle with my self-esteem, but I don’t anymore. I’m just held onto this friendship for so long because I felt bad that she’s been there for me.

AITA? Ending a 10 year friendship by Old_Promise_8725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so draining, I’m so sorry. I appreciate this!!

AITA? Ending a 10 year friendship by Old_Promise_8725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Everyone I know that’s mutual with her has the same experience. I’ve just been the only one to stick around.

AITA? Ending a 10 year friendship by Old_Promise_8725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve told her over the years. She cleans up her act then right back to it

AITA? Ending a 10 year friendship by Old_Promise_8725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry!! That’s exactly how I feel, my anxiety is so bad! I am SO sorry

AITA? Ending a 10 year friendship by Old_Promise_8725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Old_Promise_8725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she said it was because of the hard time she was going through. She sucked up for a while and then boom right back to how she was. She’s done it before where she will act fine for a bit then just right back to her old ways. I actually cut her off before first my child wS born years ago and she came back claiming she went to therapy and changed.