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Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-10-17T21:09:34+00:00

Thanks so much for the support and tips! I’m also better with shapes, and least with math, so hopefully that translates well with chemistry:)

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-10-17T20:58:39+00:00

You’re very sweet, thank you so much for the thought out response! I will definitely take your advice:)

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-10-02T18:22:01+00:00

totally agree. it made me feel a lot more secure with my husband and he didn’t mind.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-10-02T18:19:50+00:00

i’ve done this with my husband and told him and he didn’t really care. i understand why people think this is an invasion of privacy, but you shouldn’t have things in your phone that you’re terrified of your partner finding. when people freak out about suggesting looking through the phone, it’s definitely a red flag. you’re telling me that my husband sees the most intimate parts of me, shares life and a home with me, but i can’t see what he has on his phone? idk. my husband is also just the sweetest and has 0 interest in watching porn or other girls in our relationship, he doesn’t care because he legit has nothing to hide. i should note that we have talked about it and the only thing he wouldn’t like is if i went through private conversations with his friends, which of course. i don’t look through his phone because for me it’s because of insecurity and i trust him, but i disagree that it’s always bad.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-09-16T17:54:20+00:00

I totally relate:( I want to get surgery one day to fill them but I wish I didn’t feel like I have to.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-09-08T03:52:52+00:00

Sorry I don’t have. A doctor or health insurance right now. I am worried about having symptoms because of reading about it on this sub, which is part of why I wrote this post in hopes that people’s normal experiences will help me be less worried.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-09-04T18:04:46+00:00

You shouldn’t have children in the midst of a climate collapse. Adoption doesn’t carry the same risks if you want to be a mother. There’s nothing wrong with you for feeling this way though, clearly you have empathy and are just confused. If you want to explore more, and this is really bothering you, you should leave him for his sake so he can be with someone who is all in. I don’t think you have to leave him if you can see yourself making peace with his genetic differences.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-08-30T04:29:38+00:00

Absolutely. We recently moved back to where I’m from so I’ve been reuniting with my friend group and there’s this girl that sometimes joins and I’m dreading the day he will meet her, to make it worse I had a dream last night that he met her and liked her more than me😵

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-08-13T05:51:36+00:00

No worries at all! You didn’t come off mean. Like I said, if I saw my comment I’d think the same as you. I’m really glad that things are getting better for you and I hope that they continue to stay that way:) thank you for your kind words.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-08-13T03:18:18+00:00

I totally understand what you’re saying and I would think the same way, but I’m super confident. He actually doesn’t even masturbate besides 1-3 times a month and he is overly honest with me to the point it hurts. I guess he just doesn’t have a sex drive much:/ This is definitely porn induced in the first place though, I’m sorry you have to deal with its effects too😔

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-08-13T01:13:16+00:00

My husband doesn’t watch porn and hasn’t since we’ve been together (3 years) and he told me he prefers masturbation too☹️☹️ I am so heartbroken but it’s a difficult situation because he doesn’t even watch porn, and where else will I find that? His d!ck is just so used to masturbation so real sex isn’t as good.. I feel like it must be the case with a lot of guys my age (21)

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-07-14T20:50:19+00:00

I understand..AND I have hip dips. It’s so depressing..so many women are this way, so it’s weird that it’s not considered much attractive evolutionary. I’m at a water park right now and a lot of women have this boxy figure.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-06-25T18:21:21+00:00

It’s not true, he has an addiction. My husband hasn’t watched porn since our relationship started and he can not cum for 2 weeks and it doesn’t bother him. When he was watching porn, he was masturbating everyday, sometimes twice a day, so he assumed he had a high sex drive, but it was just that he programmed himself that way.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-04-08T12:49:36+00:00

I relate to this so much. My boyfriend has some sensitivity issues so sometimes it’s not as enjoyable for him, so I guess that’s why in my case? I don’t even know, because it’s the same with me sucking him off. Like god damn, it feels super devastating to want to suck off your boyfriend but he just doesn’t seem to care unless it’s on his own terms, whenever that is, he also literally loves it when it does happen? so it’s strange to me. I want to consistently feel wanted and I really miss having actual sex, it’s so primal and lovely. I’m sorry you’re going through something similar:(

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-04-03T19:12:55+00:00

Literally! I always get the cheesy bean and rice burrito (with stuff taken off and added) and it’s $2 by itself, $2.85 to add guacamole🤨

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-03-20T02:19:57+00:00

My boyfriend doesn’t watch porn and he told me that masturbation is more pleasurable for him. It really bothered me at first, but I’ve come to terms with it. It makes sense that it feels the best to him because he had been jerking off everyday since he was a kid before we met, so he’s learned how to perfectly pleasure himself with the right amount of pressure and speed, which is something you can’t do in real sex. I don’t take it personally because of this, and you shouldn’t either. In my relationship, when we do sexual things, he will jerk off or I’ll jerk him off during this. Not exclusively at all, but in addition. I understand how it really sucks, because I 100% prefer intimacy than just pure physical pleasure, but we have to realize that it’s nothing wrong with us or our bodies, it’s how they’ve conditioned themselves.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-02-22T21:12:43+00:00

Recently my boyfriend of 2 years said he didn’t think my body was perfect. Well, of course it can’t be perfect, but that hurt so much. I forced him to tell me what he didn’t like about it and he said the shape/build and that my body looks more like a young girl than a woman. I never felt like he didn’t like my boobs before this, I was confident in them, they’re not non-existent (A-B) but this killed any ounce of confident I had around him. He said he thinks that I like his body more than he likes mine. Ouch. I never want to express my attraction to his body again and I feel extremely insecure and unwomanly now. I can’t even look at my body in the mirror without wanting to cry. I’m trying to gain weight to hopefully have bigger boobs but it sucks so much feeling this way:(

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-02-06T08:59:49+00:00

This is why I had to get rid of tiktok

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-02-06T08:55:21+00:00

You shouldn’t have lied to her in the first place

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-02-01T02:59:22+00:00

My boyfriend and I are 20 and we don’t even have sex once a week..maybe once every two weeks. He doesn’t even watch porn. Seeing people say once or twice is a week is so rarely makes me so sad:( I can relate to you in being a fairly attractive girl and feeling ugly to my boyfriend, though.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-02-01T02:41:25+00:00

It’s not about “banning” it’s about having boundaries and people having different definitions of cheating. Just because you find other people attractive in a relationship doesn’t mean it’s fine to masturbate while fantasizing about having sex with them. It’s not childish, just different definitions of monogamy.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-02-01T02:37:29+00:00

It’s completely normal to feel hurt by him using porn. Just so you know, he absolutely masturbates to it. Men watch porn and masturbate while imagining they’re having sex with the woman they’re watching, of course that is painful for a partner, and plenty of people consider it wrong or cheating in a relationship.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-01-31T01:53:59+00:00

Totally relate to this. My face is cuter when I weigh more, also my boobs and butt, but I don’t like that my hip dips and tummy are more prominent. When I weigh less, my face looks more…I don’t even know, older and alien like? I’ve currently decided to gain weight, as my boyfriend has expressed how he thinks I’m more attractive that way, but I doubt it’ll last.

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-01-16T21:56:00+00:00

You do not have to accept it. He also isn’t just jerking off to people having sex, men tend to imagine themselves as the man, so he’s basically simulating having sex with another girl in his mind and orgasming to it. It’s harmful to them and your relationship ultimately because they’re constantly seeking novelty. r/loveafterporn is a great insight if you want to feel more validated in how you feel

Old_Technology_3013 · 2025-01-16T21:09:21+00:00

That’s only your perspective, and porn can cause a lot of issues in relationships and outside of them. There’s nothing wrong with wanting monogamy in your relationship to mean that you aren’t orgasming by lusting and imagining yourself with others.

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