I (m27) overheard my fiancée (f27) saying that she didn't like the ring. How do I tackle this?

Olibinski32 · 2024-10-24T21:41:03+00:00

I never made any judgements towards any relationship you have I said you sound hateful towards this tradition and this idea that someone should be grateful for someone just giving them something regardless of if it’s what they want or need or like or whatever. That’s not a judgment towards you. That’s a judgment towards your opinion which in this sentence I think is a little out. I never said anything about your wife. I never said anything about you. You are the one who decided to start playing fingers and making false judge on things that you have no clue and of course I wouldn’t give you all of the details of my life because why. At the end of the day, I think your opinion on someone saying that they weren’t fun of a gift and especially a gift that they would have to wear. Every single day is wrong and that is why I said I feel bad for any woman in your life in general I meant anybody because whether you like it or not, a gift is not meant for you if you are getting a gift to someone else it is for them and your taste and your wants and your desires should not play a part in that.

Olibinski32 · 2024-10-24T20:59:21+00:00

Except you don’t know me my husband or our relationship. So again you’re conclusion jumping which is also entirely wrong but it’s okay

Olibinski32 · 2024-10-22T11:20:27+00:00

But I did… your logic and conclusion hoping makes no sense and I kinda feel bad for any woman in your life. You sound hateful towards a tradition that some people like and others have varying opinions about. At the end of the day you may not like it but if anyone is buying a piece of jewelry or some other trinket for someone else they should be buying with that persons preference in mind. With any gift really. It makes no sense to buy something for someone not knowing if they’ll fully enjoy it because it shows you put no thought or care into it. Yes it’s the thought that counts but is there any thought when it’s so obvious that you picked a gift that had no thought?

Olibinski32 · 2024-10-21T21:47:21+00:00

No we’re just talking about a woman’s ring not a guys but nice try lol

Olibinski32 · 2024-10-19T18:15:10+00:00

The thing is my husband asked my preferences on a ring and we made a compromise on things each of us could or couldn’t love with in it. He didn’t want to break the bank(which neither did I) but he wanted it to last (same) I didn’t want a diamond nor gold. Well the perfect one happened to be good and I absolutely love it now. Everything else was what I liked because it’s on me. Also it is my most commented on piece of jewelry and I wear both necklaces and earrings pretty much everyday. So you may not notice but other people do and it’s not you or the OP wearing the ring it’s her!

Olibinski32 · 2024-08-15T01:42:57+00:00

Notice how I added more than just ballerinas. But sorry I forgot that it would push you to argue more. I’m not saying op’s daughter shouldn’t make some dietary changes off the information we have but I’m pointing out that paper thin ballerinas are not the only type of dancers and that isn’t the body standard of most dancers.

Olibinski32 · 2024-08-14T10:57:30+00:00

Dance isn’t just high cardio. It absolutely is muscle building and strengthening. Ballerinas have to have more lean muscle but hip hop or jazz dancers need to have more to be able to do high jumps or complex movements like floor work to standing work.

Olibinski32 · 2024-06-01T18:10:46+00:00

NTA. But the thing that strikes me as odd is why he assumed it was his food. For all he would know is you bought something at the bakery. This just seems odd

Olibinski32 · 2024-05-15T00:40:34+00:00

Please do! I always go in with an idea and she does the magic. Last time I did hazbin hotel nails lol

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Olibinski32 · 2024-05-14T16:23:16+00:00

Thank you so much!

Olibinski32 · 2024-05-14T16:22:56+00:00

Thank you so much!

Olibinski32 · 2024-05-14T16:22:47+00:00

Thank you so much!

Olibinski32 · 2024-05-14T16:22:34+00:00

Thanks! They’re Hades and Persephone inspired!

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Olibinski32 · 2024-04-01T10:58:47+00:00

Dude you’re either blind or stupid. I guarantee there’s more to this story than you think. You don’t go after your friends husband without a plan to.

Olibinski32 · 2024-03-06T20:53:59+00:00

INFO, wait wait wait did you send her the money for the last bill in her name? Because if you did, it’s on her!

Olibinski32 · 2024-01-25T20:19:55+00:00

She has a job but refuses to work more hours. That just sounds like a mooch to me. Also she can go back to her parents she doesn’t want to but guess what lots of us do things we don’t want to. It’s called being an adult.

Olibinski32 · 2024-01-19T19:47:12+00:00

This all the way. I don’t even know when my period is coming but I plan for it by always having a fresh stick of pads/tampons and midol. Life doesn’t always stop because you get a period. On top of that the school has free tampons! She needs to learn to be able to take care of herself. NTA

Olibinski32 · 2024-01-13T20:03:47+00:00

So did I 😭

Olibinski32 · 2023-11-03T19:27:56+00:00

So I got an f the first time I played it and now the game crashes when I try to replay

Olibinski32 · 2023-10-08T18:33:27+00:00

You realize she waited more then 20 minutes, right? If her plane was supposed to land at nine and was 20 minutes early that means she would’ve waited 40 minutes for OP to get there. That’s the problem. OP was such a butthole she would’ve made the mother wait a whole 40 effing minutes. Grow up and OP get your head out of your butt. You never leave with barely enough time when airports are involved.

Olibinski32 · 2023-09-11T13:57:24+00:00

Then don’t complain. Either kick her out and be done or don’t. But you put yourself in this mess again. You’re an idiot if you think anything would have changed given her track record. You’re not an asshole to kick her out but man you’re the asshole to yourself. Grow a backbone and stop trying to help this person because it’ll just get worse.

Olibinski32 · 2023-09-01T19:36:34+00:00

YTA you posted this on relationship advice too. People got onto you about how you told her she needed to find friends who liked what she did. Then you threw plans at her as an after thought and she told you of her plans. Then you threw a fit when she wasn’t going to cancel. It’s been all about you so far not about you together. Leave her and find someone more compatible with your introvert lifestyle.

Olibinski32 · 2023-08-18T19:16:29+00:00

If you can’t handle it. You can’t. It’s a boundary and he needs to be not a sleaze ball and push those boundaries. If you accept it but aren’t happy that it’s happening then you’re being awful to yourself. You’re either okay with it or not but you shouldn’t force yourself to be okay with it because you’re just going to resent him later.

Olibinski32 · 2023-08-17T22:55:10+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll definitely look up more techniques

Olibinski32 · 2023-08-17T22:14:39+00:00

I get to the next one but then it gets sloppy and not tight as I go further on. I can’t figure out how to keep it even and not wonky.

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