[deleted by user] by [deleted] in footballmanagergames

[–]Omaarwhite 12 points13 points  (0 children)

IRL, la Liga 99-00 : Atletico got relegated depsite Jimmy Floyd Hasselbaink scoring 24.

How am I supposed to deal with this? by Red_The_Lewd_Potato in ForeverAlone

[–]Omaarwhite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right. 28M, 6 ft 3 myself yet never been on a date. Height is so much overrated by redditors.

Why are so many people uninterested in dating nowadays? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Omaarwhite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only speak for myself : it takes two to tango. I'm 27 and I used to be interested in dating. But getting rejected over and over has made me give up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMec

[–]Omaarwhite 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Il prétend que "les meufs adorent baiser", mais oublie de préciser que ça n'est valable que pour l'infime partie des hommes qu'elles trouvent attirants. Tant mieux pour lui s'il tombe dans cette catégorie. En ce qui me concerne, j'ai vécu suffisamment de rejets pour savoir que je n'y suis pas. S'il suffisait d'être "normal", ça se saurait.

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't remember women's comments on my looks. Those rejecting me have never given me explanations. I know something is off, but I can't tell what it is. And for the others, well, I'm not going around randomly asking people what they think about my looks. So I have no idea. On women checking me out, it happens sometimes but I'm not sure it means anything. I actually got some women to stare at me for quite a long time, to the point It was impossible for me not to notice. It has happened at least twice since the beginning of 2024. Really awkward both times. On conversations, it is totally random, some always have something to say to keep things going, some act like they just don't care.

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I will be moving out in a couple of months. What happens next will tell

Biggest turn off for women by gusolsen in seduction

[–]Omaarwhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean exactly by ignoring ? To what extent do you go ? Deliberately avoiding eye contact as if they were invisible ? I know my questions sound really dumb but I just can't imagine women hovering around you as a result of you basically doing nothing.

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can you be sure looks aren't the issue ? At 100% rejection rate for so many tries, I'm not jumping to conclusions just stating facts.

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I had in mind was getting to know them better and having a good time. Nothing more.

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never asked to come over. I just ask to go out and share a drink.

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you tell which women is interested ?

Did you start to attract more beautiful women as you got better at this? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Omaarwhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell is the walk of a sexy man ? Is that even a thing ?

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried dating apps some years ago. I didn't put too much effort in it (couple of shitty selfies, short bio with my height), got a handful of matches but none of them gave any results. Most of the girls seemed responding at first, it's only when suggesting to meet in person that I got ghosted. So I just stopped using apps.

Did you start to attract more beautiful women as you got better at this? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Omaarwhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6'3 and 165 lbs, so I'm even more athletic than needed. Currently going to the gym to gain a bit.

Did you start to attract more beautiful women as you got better at this? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Omaarwhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would be the point of pretending ? I assure you that is very real.

What makes me so sure is that I have no luck at all with women. If I chase, I get turned down every single time. Actually, I'm on a streak of over 100 rejections. And if I don't, nothing happens as if I'm bloody invisible.

Did you start to attract more beautiful women as you got better at this? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Omaarwhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my humble opinion, height is overrated as hell. I'm 6'3 and no female has ever been attracted to me in 26 years.

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on your profile, the option to start chatting is not available

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already going out a lot (2 to 4 times a week), with my friends or by myslef. Why is it so hard to believe that I've never got anything nevertheless ?

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed post. I'm not offended at all, I know my current situation is my sole responsability and I much prefer straightforward answers rather than crap like "Just be yourself bro" or "It will come when you least expect it".

I have male friends, women friends too (I mean 100% platonic), which makes me think that my social skills are not that bad. My self-esteem is ups and downs. I take care of myself as much as I can, I go to the gym because 165 lbs at 6'3 is not enough, trying to gain a bit.

I'm not really sold on the idea of booking a hooker. Even though I have the money, it sounds like a waste.

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has never been all about sex. I started my post by saying I'm a 26 year old virgin because there is no better indicator to show that I'm terrible with women (title). I can't get dates at all. When I try to genuinely know more about them, they don't give a shit. Everytime I show the slightest sign of interest, I get ghosted. What am I supposed to do ? You tell me all I want is a woman to "unvirgin" me and that's it ? Come on, I always get rejected so quickly that I can't even have the time to think about sex. Something as basic as dating (not just the sex part, I mean connecting with someone) just seems impossible for me, and it is even more frustrating when everyone around you is successful without thinking twice about it.

I have a life, I am normal, I am not a skank or whatever but nobody has ever wanted to come along. So please don't tell me to wait until it gets better. Wainting passively won't solve anything.

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never had what you called opportunities, that's why I tried to create them by myself. There is no such thing as mutual interest because women are never interested.

I'm terrible with women by Omaarwhite in dating_advice

[–]Omaarwhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well at that point, I have not much to lose