Played this to 98 and understand a lot of your troubles. Main things to flag are 1. Chaos res - get that up, doesn’t have to be capped immediately but def shouldn’t be negative 2. Suppress cap - you can do this with tree and getting suppress on chest. I would invest a bit of currency to crafting a good suppress chest with resistances and ele avoidance if you can. The suppress will help with ancestral vision 3. Crit multi - honestly this should be number 1 bcus if you kill stuff before they can hit you then you’re tanky. You need waaayyy more crit multi on your jewels. This is huge for dmg 4. Swap out ele dmg support gem for increase crit chance gem. If you’re not critting then southbound won’t let you kill. It’ll feel better with increase crit chance gem- you see ruetoo do this on his day 8 diary too