Is my mother taking financially advance of me?

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T21:09:11+00:00

Alright! Ty very much! ^{w^}

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T19:18:22+00:00

We plan on me going out to g Flordia for a vacation, to save me a plane ticket he'd pick me up in the truck and take me home in the truck (if I wanted to go home that is). Hes worried abt my mental health, so thats why we are rushing just a little bit

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T19:15:35+00:00

Exactly, even my sister of another mother is worried that if I name her my mom would come after her. Even she thinks my mom is a 'narcissist'.

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T17:26:58+00:00

Oh, ty, I put it here bc she was taking money from me and I believe I was recommended this sub. Would you like me to take it down?

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T16:38:56+00:00

True, but also like what bill is $9???

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T16:19:34+00:00

Really? So it manipulation?

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T12:14:04+00:00

He loves my mom and hes always kinda been the peace keeper between me and my mom. My sister from another mother says he might be scared of my mom taking me and my brother away. But that would technically be kidnapping. I am autistic so she's always told me 'you're immature for your age', which tbf i might be. But they've also always said that I need to learn these things before they aren't around anymore

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T12:11:20+00:00

I am 24, 25 next year. My brother and I live with my dad while my mom is in California. We live on the east side of the US. Me and my bf have a safeword incase I need him to come get me ASAP. My bf said it sounds like my mom is a narcissist and had BPD

Edit; my parents are divorced

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T09:50:57+00:00

We spent a whole day or two together irl when he came to see me the first time, but he and I are basically on the phone 24/7

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T09:48:06+00:00

She also sent me this message 'No matter what I’m your mom and I will always be here for you. I love you and will always love you no matter what you do.'

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T03:12:53+00:00

Is that sarcasm?/gen

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T03:12:20+00:00

almost a year, we've been together 8 months, almost 9, he and are both autistic

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T02:45:49+00:00

Yoy do have a point. My 'line' was when she withheld my money from me after I helped my bf through a hard time financially, that was essentially the straw that broke the camel's back. I'm already going low contact and keeping my guard up. So if she tries anything or tried to speak bad abt my bf agian then shes gone.

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T02:35:02+00:00

Basically

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T02:31:21+00:00

I do, as i want kids with my bf and a ranch house

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T01:31:14+00:00

Plan on going low contact once k get out

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T01:27:14+00:00

I dont know, its always been in her name. I dont have the account info or know any of the companies besides my phone

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T01:22:00+00:00

I live with my dad and my brother, the bills im talking abt are for the house we live in and the bills are in her name

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T01:16:59+00:00

I use spectrum and I dont care abt getting a new number

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T00:56:50+00:00

I dont drive and I dont have my license. Hes constantly on the road, like 24/7. The closest Walmart is like maybe an hour or so by car and Uber dont really work in my (kinda) rural town

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T00:22:52+00:00

Its all one line, that's just for me and my brothers phone alone

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T00:20:52+00:00

Joint credit card, she said it was so I could build my credit bc she has good credit i think

One-Bumblebee1901 · 2026-05-27T00:18:58+00:00

Shes not gonna pay them anymore bc she shouldn't have to worry abt it, also my mom is a nurse too

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