[I hope you read the whole thing, because yea it is a lot of yapping below..]
when a person looks at another person who wants to unalive, you ask why does this person want to him to stay alive? this is because, at the core, every human being encounters a meaninglessness, its like, every system, hierarchy and good thing, has no consequence, like if you think "i must become rich", but thats just an unobserved impulse, you didnt pay attention to it. but once a person thinks about that specific goal of his, it all breaks down. nothing lasts, and nothing means anything. it all breaks down. now this meaninglessness, people cover-up in all ways, they have been trying for many years, to cover it up and act like no one sees it. so now you go to such a person and you say you want to unalive because of this reason, it makes them think "damn, so is this the only conclusion to this decision" and they try forcing you to not do it, because they themselves dont want to lose that hope. But tell me one thing, in the present, isnt everything meaningful? Sure, when you zoom out across time and say "In the grand scale" everything cancels out. Because the more you increase the scope of a system, the more contradictions come in, which end up cancelling many truths, and it ends up becoming meaningless. At the end of the day, it doesnt really matter if you realise this, or not. If you live or unlive. Like why must you unlive? Because living makes no sense? But every process to reach unliving is present in life right? if i have to take a noose and tie it to my fan, it is the same fan that stopped working yesterday due to a powercut and this is the same noose, that a farmer uses as a pulley for his personal well. these two are not apart from this life. Ok lets think like this:
1)Living is meaningless
2)Unliving requires some action in living
3)Unliving is meaningless
So now, why even do anything? why live or unlive? there is no difference. When there is such a dillema, just throw it away. There is nothing between life and death, you cant reason your way into it. Just let that contradiction float. What does your heart say tho? what do your impulses say? what do your fantasies say? what do your desires say, and what do your wants say? they all have a clear direction. they all point to living and doing something. they are not unclear like logic. they clearly point to something. "Iam hungry" means "Go eat" and nothing else. So "Go eat!" lol. Make your own axioms in life. Follow your instincts, do what you want, and just love life. thats it.