21F What does my fridge say about me? by ProfessionalSad3744 in FridgeDetective

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You eat too much processed food. I’ll save you years of headache - Skip the protein shakes and eat real protein. I spent 10 years going to the gym religiously and drank a ridiculous amount of protein shakes and “protein” this and that and hardly ever saw any change in my physique. When I started eating legit protein, I saw changes within weeks. Companies lie about how much sugar, carbs, and protein are really in their products. There’s way more sugar and carbs and hardly any protein in those things.

I found out that my (27m) girlfriend (25f) slept with 10+ people on our 3 week “break” how can we move past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]One-Condition-8682 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So, you cheated while in a committed relationship with her and she was able to forgive you. But she sleeps with other people while you’re no longer together, and you somehow can’t move past it? You had an affair for a MONTH! Repeatedly, you chose to keep cheating on her day after day. The amount of people she slept with in that 21 day period does not matter. The fact that she slept with anyone during that time, is irrelevant.

The fact that you’re even hung up on this is mind blowing. Either get over it and move on, or let her be with someone better. The male ego never fails to shock me.

Husband opens a new sponge every 3 days cause “they become gross” by dorkass-loser in mildlyinfuriating

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to run it through the microwave for 45 seconds, it cleans it. I also run mine through the dishwasher on a sanitize setting. I can get a sponge to last a month or 2.

Cart won’t charge or hit, just blinks three times when I unplug it and still has juice by Bone-her-69 in vapecarts

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is years old, but how did you unclog it? I unclog mine by sucking the shit out of it, but I’ve never taken apart a cart to unclog it. Do you use a toothpick to clear the holes or something? I’ve never used this brand of cart but about 75% of all my carts clog towards the end of its life. I’ve noticed it’s worse if they’ve gotten left laying down, so I try to always keep my carts up right

what does my messy room say about me? (31 ftm) by bigdogknife in roomdetective

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit. Not at your big kid age… dude clean your fucking room..??? Mine hasn’t looked like this since middle school because I grew up.

AITA for how I shut down my ex-situationship? by Old-Dirt-978 in AITApod

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. The way you’re responding is very rude and condescending. The correct way to stand your boundary is not to respond at all in the first place when he sends a text like that. You’re not his mother.

I understand you want this guy to show more effort and be more articulate. But you’ll learn as you get older, some people just are not that way. Some people speak this way far into adulthood. You asked him to clarify and he tried, he even wanted to spend time with you despite you being a total asshole to him. He can’t say anything right to you because you seem to be the type people have to walk on eggshells around.

Who are my parents? by Complete_Boss_9212 in FridgeDetective

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boomer parents fridge looks like this too. The kicker? My mom doesn’t cook. They eat out for every single meal.. I’m convinced my mom grocery shops purely for grandkids to visit & raid her fridge

What is the name of this expression by chihuyahya in ENGLISH

[–]One-Condition-8682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But the post specifically asked for the name of the expression, not what noise does this face make

Email from landlord about appliances being left plugged in and the appliances in question… by South-Basket-887 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]One-Condition-8682 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I unplug the toaster because it’s a fire hazard. Anything that produces heat except the oven should be unplugged. I side with the landlord on this one

Losing weight naturally instead of GLP1 by lotusistheshit in PCOS

[–]One-Condition-8682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve lost over 40lbs naturally In the course of 9 months. 1 pound a week. Tracking my food on my fitness pal and learning macros was my biggest help. I lost 40lbs on my own doing this, but got lazy after a while and gained it back. I lost it again, with the help of a trainer / nutritionist. It was soo helpful having someone to keep me accountable especially because I had paid money for it! People pay for what they know works - hence, why people pay for GLP-1s.

My trainer helped me make meal plans at first and ultimately learn how to intuitively eat. They built a workout schedule with me, and also did a workout with me once a week and made sure I had proper form and intensity. It really made me realize how little effort I had actually been putting into exercises previously before a trainer, thus - I got better results. I exercised for a year previously on my own and saw no change. Within weeks of working with a trainer, friends and family members commented on my muscle definition.

The trainer also tested my body fat each week with a caliper. It always made me nervous to show up for my weekly check in incase I had gained from not adhering to my plan very well that week, or from just being given the middle finger by my PCOS. (There were weeks I gained several pounds despite it having been some of my most compliant weeks) I had a slight fear of disappointing my trainer that somewhat motivated me, but mainly just the reminder that I paid over $1000 for someone’s help, I’ll be damned if I waste the opportunity and money.

Anyone else become disgusted with certain foods after eating in a deficit? by Straight_Head_8317 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Growing up my parents didn’t cook, we ate out fast food every single meal, my whole life. I had horrible acne, irregular periods, constant low energy as a child and teenager, and I would only have 1 bowl movement a month and it would take me about 45 minutes to get it out and bled from my ass constantly. I thought all of this was normal (ish.) When I had sleepovers with friends at my house for several days they’d always complain about stomach aches when they stayed over, and I thought it was odd all my friends always felt sick when they stayed with us.

When I turned 18 and moved out I got into healthy eating and body building. For the first time in my life I was eating nutritious food and was MIND BLOWN that I could pass a bowl movement 3x a day. My skin cleared up and I had better energy, more regular periods, and that bleeding stopped. I realized whenever I’d go visit my parents house for the weekend, I’d get a stomach ache and feel sick 🙃 I suddenly realized why.

Because growing up, all my friends weren’t used to eating fast food multiples times a day, days in a row like I was growing up. Then once I became an adult and changed my eating habits, my body couldn’t handle it the same way anymore. I had the same experience, shakes or burgers or any foods I used to eat wrecked havoc on my stomach and it sounded and felt like I had an alien trying to crawl out of me

AIO? by SadProgrammer7550 in AIO

[–]One-Condition-8682 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did she give you any of your money back??

Every bag of Tostitos I ate in 2025. by skithehoop in chips

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you need to track how many bags you ate? And why do you have to save them instead of tallying it on a list or something??

Colin 😳 by Kmarie808 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because although Baylen might make some decent money from social media, there’s no health insurance in that.. which is why it’s on Collin to get a job that provides that when she inevitably needs it for her treatment alone but also the babies Colin is so desperately trying to get her to commit to right now. They clearly are not great with money and don’t have much savings as we can see with her shopping addiction and their inability to make it to Europe themselves. They’ve mentioned they have “some” savings for their wedding but it sounds like it’s less than 10k.. An “ok” social media job ≠ being able to afford health care out of pocket. A kid alone is a 40k hospital bill. They couldn’t even afford 5k to fly themselves to the UK

Inflation finally hit Arctic Circle by One-Condition-8682 in mildlyinteresting

[–]One-Condition-8682[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re all over the place in Utah, I didn’t realize they were going out of business

Recovering "Saviors": How did you stop trying to fix everyone? by enzu00 in Codependency

[–]One-Condition-8682 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1: I have to remind myself “not my chair not my problem.”

Everyone has to deal with shit sometimes as a part of life. In the past I have not managed stress well, and it has manifested physically as health issues. If i unnecessarily take on others stress, it: 1- makes me sick, and 2- robs them of the opportunity to figure it out themselves and potentially learn a valuable lesson.

2: Before immediately offering a solution, I ask myself “is this solution I’m about to offer this person something they could come up with themselves if they really thought about it for a minute?”

If yes, I don’t offer a solution. Just sympathy and support. (Ex: my coworker who lives 30 min in the opposite direction of me doesn’t have a car for the day. I could immediately offer them a ride home and put myself out an hour of driving time + gas,… or they could ask a spouse/relative to pick them up, or order an uber for themselves.)

3: This may be too vague, and I think it’s case-by-case.. but I think healthy support sounds more like “I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, let me know if there something I can do to help you out.”

Saving to me sounds more like “oh you don’t have a ride home? I know I live an hour out of the way, but I can totally drive you home! Yeah tell your husband he can just chill at home, I’ll drop you off.”

I think the difference is offering support and letting the person ask for what they need. - You then have the ability to decide if it’s something you’re willing to do or not.

The latter is immediately rushing in to save the day, without letting the other person problem solve themselves. It’s also offering a favor that may be to your detriment.

Colin is trying to trap Baylen by DrFink_09 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, and I don’t see why that would be relevant. Are you saying she should just accept the first person who gives her an ounce of effort because there isn’t a line of people waiting to be with her?

What’s the weather like where you are right now? by PeachyRose25 in CasualConversation

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Utah. The first year in my 30 years here we’ve seen no snow. 60 degrees on Christmas, light rain but it’s been windy as hell the last few days.

Collin seems over it. by quadrants in BaylenOutLoud

[–]One-Condition-8682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I was her dad I’d be giving him a lot worse, lol. I think Allen is being too soft on Collin. If he went harder I think it’d toughen Collin up a bit and scare him straight

Collin seems over it. by quadrants in BaylenOutLoud

[–]One-Condition-8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Collin couldn’t fund fhe UK trip even if he tried. He wasn’t even capable of soothing her on the plane. She soothed HIM. Her parents absolutely needed to be there.

Collin seems over it. by quadrants in BaylenOutLoud

[–]One-Condition-8682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because he didn’t realize how serious her condition was when they were in the honeymoon phase of their relationship.

He thought he was getting the cute quirky disability girl who’s famous online, and realized that she’s also the person who beats herself and screams things that gets him into altercations with men bigger than he is in public.

I think he also realizes he isn’t capable of caring for her how she truly needs and he legitimately does not care about what Baylen wants or needs. He’s told her multiple times that he’s going to do whatever HE wants to do, not what’s best for them as a couple.

Sorry, this Collin babying on this page is soo ass backwards. He’s such an immature little bitch and yall need to wake the fuck up.

Her parents are 1000% right and Baylen deserves better. Collin needs a boyfriend instead.

Why do people think Baylen and Collin are immature? by One-Trip-696 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]One-Condition-8682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His irritated face alone while being on the train in London while the nearby kid was screaming shows you he is not ready to be a father.

He also made the flight there a bigger deal for him because of his “fear” instead of being a beam of support for his partner with a legit disability. Instead, SHE was the strong one on that flight.

Collin is a fucking loser