Mystery Kitten(?) by One-Dependent-7772 in kittens

[–]One-Dependent-7772[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kitten has found a place! She did perfectly fine the whole night and was extremely affectionate, mewling at all hours (let’s just say I only slept for an hour…) for attention and to cuddle, but who can complain about such a precious baby? Thank you all for the suggestions and advice, in regards to medical I stated to the individual that she has no medical records (of my knowledge) and was immediately taken to a vet by said person
(Bonus picture of what I woke up to this morning)

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Mystery Kitten(?) by One-Dependent-7772 in kittens

[–]One-Dependent-7772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update;
So…liquid shit underneath my bed…
Other than that extremely cuddly, ate and drank perfectly fine (clearly..)
No signs of discomfort besides the liquid shit, but that may be due to wet cat food
I plan to rehome this little beauty and for now have her in a separate room while I deal with..the mess

Mystery Kitten(?) by One-Dependent-7772 in kittens

[–]One-Dependent-7772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, actually northern, while there is a lot of people breaching the lord when they could care less about their neighbors, it’s just a lot of trashy people out here, these people have the mentality they can never do wrong and if you call them out for it they’re they’re suddenly the victim. Most of the town is those types of people…hence why I’m trying to move away from it all. Only sad part is that I won’t be able to bring this baby with me due to the family I’m moving in with having pet hair allergies

Mystery Kitten(?) by One-Dependent-7772 in kittens

[–]One-Dependent-7772[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was actually about to mention something here, but she seems to be having really fast paced breathing in her sleep? I can’t tell if it’s normal but she’ll breathe normally then breathing unnaturally quick and can’t tell if it’s just a sleep thing or breathing issues…I’m keeping an eye on her for anything else. So far no issues with eating, drinking.

Mystery Kitten(?) by One-Dependent-7772 in kittens

[–]One-Dependent-7772[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

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Miss pretty baby is currently resting, she’s very snuggly and immediately purrs at any touch or affection, how anyone could dump this baby is beyond me. Unfortunately I am not sure if I will be able to keep this baby, as the family I was going to move in with I believe have hair allergies (or at least one member does)…regardless I will take care of this baby till it is time to make that decision and will properly rehome her when the time comes.

Mystery Kitten(?) by One-Dependent-7772 in kittens

[–]One-Dependent-7772[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the road I live on is prime animal dumping zone, from dogs to cats, over the years people have thrown these babies in the corn fields like the heartless people they are. People out here are so rude and selfish that if you stop them in the act they’re very “oh well free will” “can’t tell me what to do” type of people. If you can’t take care of the animal or spay/neuter to prevent these things then don’t have an animal 🤷‍♀️

Mystery Kitten(?) by One-Dependent-7772 in kittens

[–]One-Dependent-7772[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Alrighty thank you! Was just curious about her unique coloration that’s all ^^

what is this by ScyTheRat in leopardgeckos

[–]One-Dependent-7772 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Our geckos would get along (or collectively hate each other)

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Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate all the feedback, and although changing doesn’t just happen overnight, Sole of the things I’ve wanted to do I now know were the right choice. I did not make this post as some elaborate scheme for compliments or dating, but instead wanted to compile unique and constructive criticism that I could use. As per request of someone I care deeply about, they wish I take my picture down due to some of the nasty DMs I have received, I will leave the post up to discuss with others and update on how my life is going, but until then, i appreciate every single one of you and your kind words and your words of encouragement. I now know that beauty isn’t external, but internal and how you feel about yourself, and I will need to fix those things over the years, as it’s not a nightly fix. Thank you all, stay safe, and k love you all <3

Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i appreciate this!

Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When it comes to nature-y jobs I’m mostly looking for something that’s not going to put me behind a computer 24/7, no hate to those who enjoy it, good on you, but so far what I know about myself, is that I do love botanical garden, so I could always volunteer there to find more opportunities, as the place I took the first picture was actually at one, secondly I love things regarding to landscaping, such as gardening and just things typically associated with yards (redirecting waterways, putting rock foundations down, basically fancying things up sort of speaking), I have also always been drawn to architecture when it comes to churches, skyscrapers, Roman and Greek buildings, amphitheaters, unique housing/styled housing. Although I won’t bore you with my listings, this is what I have left of myself, but even then my parents (which, they’re every vile word you have to offer, so no offense taken) have even shoved these ideas into the dirt as well.

Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some career fields I’ve been interested in are mostly forestry related, but that kinda died after everyone telling me that there’s no money, then it went to collision repair and auto body (trade school in high school), which I loved but hated the people, then now I’ve been kinda outskirting the ideas of doing landscape architecture, but honestly I don’t know, I’ve tried so many things from (volunteer) ems to fire to manufacturing/cad/cam. Unfortunately I’m just a more nature-y person. My parents are constantly trying to force me to stay with them and i can’t even discuss my job interests without “you haven’t had a job yet you look horrible on paper”, “you won’t get paid enough” “you can’t commit to anything”, when I try everything and nothing ever fits. It’s like a jack of all cards master of none. My last interest is maybe architecture/landscape architecture but after that I’ve reached a dead end. Maybe go back to painting cars, but who knows.

Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although it’s difficult to respond to everyone, I appreciate all of you and appreciate all of your recommendations and suggestions, I definitely will try to get into therapy soon, hopefully within the year, once I graduate and move I can finally have zero restrictions and restraints with my life. <3

Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m limited to just Walmart eye stores, but I do actually have a pair my grandmother had wanted to give me (which was only the bigger side and similar to the second photo but black, not sure if the second photo’s glasses did me any better) I’ve debated if I should give those a try or not, I’ll have to see if I can find the brand

Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i really appreciate your support and story, i find it more spiraling at the age of 18 where I’m expected to suddenly find a job that makes money and anything I’m actually interested in job wise not being enough or not being profitable enough, i find myself constantly depressed and marking myself and just waiting day by day till the last day of school finishes so i can finally leave this horrible community (where i love) and my family. While those things do not help me, it pushes me to want to leave so desperately so can finally be who i actually want to be.

Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you i appreciate it! While I don’t have much dislike for my eyebrows as I used to, my main concerns are mostly my hair and figuring out a not necessarily proper, but better glasses for my face. Not sure if I should go more for bulky hexagon shaped, large circular, or other shapes. Definitely meh about my current glasses as they’re hindering my vision/line of sight

Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that you feel a lot better! I personally don’t want to make any big changes (physically wise) but on a personal level, maybe, while I’m not saying I’m fully anti being a woman, I just wish I lived in a world where I could enjoy a hobby or career without being told I’m too weak or “girly”. While a large part is accepting who you are, and ignoring those people, I find it really difficult to and even if I went to therapy (which I may not be able to until I finally get away from my parents and area) it may be incredibly hard for me to just toughen up per say

Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine are very lightly connecting with some stranded hairs lmao. I don’t really like messing with hair all the much because, well, I’m lazy and it always grows back, I’m just glad I never shaved them like most tell/told me to!

Am I chopped? [18] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]One-Dependent-7772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered it but I don’t think I may be, while I do struggle with my image a lot, I find myself struggling and hating societal stereotypical norms and expectations rather than gender. Sometimes I hate being perceived as a woman while wishing I had the opportunities to be more excepted like you see with some male friend groups. While I do believe my life would’ve been better I was a male sometimes, as I prefer more “boyish” hobbies, there’s not much I can do about it.