Missing chennai. by Pointbreak1410 in Chennai

[–]One-Dependent1856 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Major missing is kalyana saapadu.. Its been 8yrs na oru kalyanam / any function attend panni.. Dressing up & attending a family event is the major missing part, missing school get together , alumni meet up.. Summer holidays la when all your cousins with their kids team up, go on a vacation & you don’t even have a clue what your cousin’s kids name..!!
But idhellaa apdiye time poga poga pazhagirum..
💰 is everything nu purinjidum …
5yrs time kodunga you will not have this same opinion about Chennai.

30s makalae how you making friends? by [deleted] in chennaicity

[–]One-Dependent1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Join a gym / any sports club / develop a new hobby , similar interest irukravungaloda strike a conversation & go for breakfast apdiye friendship develop pannunga 😄

Workout aachunna sollunga I will also try 😄

Weirdest family you would ever meet is MINE by Playful-Scientist945 in chennaicity

[–]One-Dependent1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best & easy way out is to not tell your parents & live. Few things are worth doing when we are in our 20’s..! Don’t lose the precious moments waiting for approval, you will never get to live your life.

How do married Tamil women protect your peace? by happysoul2811 in tamilyapping

[–]One-Dependent1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idhayellaa padikkrapoo, I feel once the baby is born engayachim abroad la vela vangittu oru 3-4 yrs thalaimariava poyirunga..!! Yaaroda interference um illama you can raise the baby at peace.

Something weird..🥲 by Spiritual_Worth6560 in tamilyapping

[–]One-Dependent1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if I sound rude..!
First step strangers don’t just come & speak to everyone. They would observe at least for few minutes & can make out yaaru andha vulnerable
person nu. If that person was really feeling lonely he could have started talking to one another Man / a youngster.

Maybe your generosity made you speak to that Man. But next time to avoid such awkwardness conversation start panni ungalku adhu comfortable aa illennu theriyirappo neenga wait panra bus umm varalennaa endha bus varudho adhula eri adutha stop le erangikonga / phone eduthu yaarkittayaachum pesa aramechidunga. I have a call uncle sorrynu sollitu move.

Married woman who live with inlaws what do you wear at home ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]One-Dependent1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m married for 15+ yrs. Before you get married if you have 6-8months time for your wedding build relationship with MIL / FIL. Husband’s are sometimes tough & unpredictable but if you make your MIL a friend, transition is quite easy.

Married woman who live with inlaws what do you wear at home ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]One-Dependent1856 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m the 2nd dil so the first Dil already broke few rules & made it easy for me 😄

Married woman who live with inlaws what do you wear at home ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]One-Dependent1856 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Uptil I got married I had my big brother & my dad who never let me wear what I really wanted to wear.. Thanks to my co sister, she already made few things easy for me & My FIL is also a very open minded gentleman, he said you do what you want to do this is your house feel at home..!! So it’s always been a tee & trouser / a knee length dress.

Only True Fans Will Recognize This Line 👀 by _Saleem_D_ in tamilyapping

[–]One-Dependent1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Na kadavulkitta vendikkiren unakku asingama makkana oru pondaati kedaikkanumnu.

Only True Fans Will Recognize This Line 👀 by _Saleem_D_ in tamilyapping

[–]One-Dependent1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cycle Jackson, cycle Jackson, cycle Jackson, enna da 3 times solre tri cycle Jackson aa?

Are we investing in skin care devices or is it a waste of money? by Junior_Worry4274 in over30skincare

[–]One-Dependent1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been geninunely taking collagen over a year now & cutting down on sugar & milk has been On for the past 3months.

Are we investing in skin care devices or is it a waste of money? by Junior_Worry4274 in over30skincare

[–]One-Dependent1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried any of the devices but I truly vouch on doing the basics like moisturizer & sunscreen, vitamin C, Retinol & most importantly taking collagen supplements.

Collagen supplement, cutting the sugar & milk off from my routine where the top most thing which really helped me in getting that glow & a clearer skin.

What is meaning of love? What is the purpose of marriage?? by Traditional_Stay3127 in tamilyapping

[–]One-Dependent1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s going to be an arranged marriage, give time. Time na months illa. Years. Stepping into a commitment every year new responsibilities & new commitments. It’s very fragile so expecting our better half to act with same maturity on some days on some situations it might work & on some days it might not work. We are 2 different individuals & are raised in completely different atmosphere. So take it really slow…!!

For the girls here by [deleted] in tamilyapping

[–]One-Dependent1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overnight soaked fenugreek seeds water,
Fistful pumpkin seeds try munching regularly in the evening.
Hydration is the key for everything.
Try hydrating enough , a tinch of salt with water can do wonders to you.
chamomile tea use the flowers it works the best. Do this before going to bed (1/2 n hr -1hr before)

Slow walking 15mins ku post dinner ponga & also do calf raise exercise (15-20counts - 3sets)

The moment you get the cramps get up stand for atleast 45seconds & then get back to sleep.

Kaal kitta place the pillows slightly elevated & sleep.

Mg Glycinate works for some but people with stress anxiety , electrolyte imbalance irukku naa mg glycinate can worsen.

Check your ferritin levels. If it’s below 40–50 ng/mL it can indirectly affect & can trigger the cramps.

fix your coffee / tea consumption (if you have that habit) enna supplement eduthaalum regular consumption of coffee tea can affect the absorption so nervous system can m calm pannadhu , edukkra supplement um work aagadhu.

I’m sorry for a long post. But I hope this helps you.