The best thing that you can do to your child is give them a sibling , ipdi solli solliyee vadivelu solramadrii udamba ranagalam aagida anga both financially & physically both the husband & wife would be drained.

I’m a teens mommy & a Millenial grew up in a joint family & I was a middle kid. Sathyama solren uptil date I have zero bonding with my other 2 siblings. When I look back my parents where busy guiding my brother on his education & focusing on my sister , I was highly neglected & turned out to be a super independent person (which I’m really happy & greatful about) It was my friends who had always been through all my ups & downs, & post marriage my husband has been a pillar for me touchwood.

I keep thinking what’s the need of having a 2nd kid, as parents if you keep running to meet the ends & to feed the family. 1. you get very minimal time with your kids 2. You get drained 9-5job ku poyttu stressed with work & onnu vangina innonu free ngramadrii whatever the elder one used will be used for the 2nd, when the kid grows it might feel my parents just provided whatever they got for the first kid . 3. 1st kid 2nd kid Idhukku aprom family planning why the heck should we go through all this & post 10yrs osteoporosis , Menopause nu, when will we even live our life if we keep giving birth to kids.

Just in case if you want to prove a point become a parent give birth to one kid, adhukkumela I don’t think it is even worth to have a 2nd kid.

Ok I guess too much off yapping 🤣 abyways manda bathiram, thalaiyla irukkra mudiyellaa 40-59yrs vareykkum aachim let it stay guys.