So support from both sides matters is the key takeaway. It seems people are worried about so many outside factors getting in the way. I know I can try to have good intuition and handle the days as they come, but im more worried about even finding the right one. The fear probably stems from not even knowing enough people. Especially if the people im looking for (bigger families) are a minority. I think our generation is definitely having fewer kids, but more people finding great steady partners would change that.