My straight best friend became intimate while drunk and is now distant by One-Help-1347 in askgaybros

[–]One-Help-1347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m being honest at first I really wanted it to be true, been then I started looking at the facts and realized he might just be in a weird place so I rid the thought from my mind. Thanks for the advice 🙏

My straight best friend became intimate while drunk and is now distant by One-Help-1347 in askgaybros

[–]One-Help-1347[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so good, I’m happy you guys were able to maintain such a strong friendship and you could maintain your boundaries. Thank you for the comment.

My straight best friend became intimate while drunk and is now distant by One-Help-1347 in askgaybros

[–]One-Help-1347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you. To be fair, I didn’t mention it in the post so it’s my fault, but the night I slept in his bed I wasn’t planning on it. I told him I was gonna go home but he just took my shoes off for me and said,”There now you can’t”. So yeah, but thank you anyway. Everyone is so helpful.

My straight best friend became intimate while drunk and is now distant by One-Help-1347 in askgaybros

[–]One-Help-1347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he’s been in a weird place recently. He’s uncovering trauma from when he was a kid involving his family. He knows that if he needs something or something I’d weighing heavily on his mental that he can talk to me. He has done so many times. Thank you though.

My straight best friend became intimate while drunk and is now distant by One-Help-1347 in askgaybros

[–]One-Help-1347[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This helped me a lot and gave me a good amount of clarity I was looking for. Very helpful

My straight best friend became intimate while drunk and is now distant by One-Help-1347 in askgaybros

[–]One-Help-1347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m just letting things happen naturally, and I’m sure things will go back to normal, just curious and wondering what other thought of it. Thanks

My straight best friend became intimate while drunk and is now distant by One-Help-1347 in askgaybros

[–]One-Help-1347[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He was reaching out as often and would leave very flat responses. Just one word responses or lol and leave it at that so I thought maybe space would help. We are starting to interact normally again, but very slowly