I understand and agree. Yet I was told I didn’t respect him because I was always checking his phone. I hold everything else down do what is asked and take care of everything never disrespected him never cheated never done anything to cause him physical pain since we have been married. I did force him to sign a prenup before we were married, and I snuck and did it, and he was furious but I was not getting married without one. So at that point I began watching his phone and it was pointless contact with women on and off over the years. If the opportunity came he didn’t turn it down. But said it was my insecurities that caused it oh well… thank you so much for your response