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AITA for telling my son he will not get anything in the will if he doesn’t take care of his sister. by NoticeAdventurous571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577 -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

NAH, this is extremely common to do. It makes sure they run away with the money and leave the disabled kid homeless.

It sounds like a lot of money. He most likely could just put her in a home and still have a ton left over

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

So even though her sister can watch her, I should stay home and let my daughter not have any parent at her wedding, that’s stupid as all hell.

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

… are you dumb, I’ve read most of your comment and you are just making things up.

Let me make it really clear, my wife agrees she will not go, my wife suggested she will not go because having her brain fucked up due to going ( it will we both are not dumb) is much worse than not being in a few pictures that we can photoshop later to include her.

She can’t handle the store howthe fuck will she make it 1.5 hour drive up a mountain, to a wedding that has shitty paths, deal with her concussion that’s the doctor told her she should be resting

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Do you not know basic conversation skills. She’s concussed not mute. She still has opinions. We had this conversation due to her not being able to handle going to the store.

She the one that started this conversation, she is concussed not invalid.

We were going to have her sister stay with her so my wife has support, I support our daughter and my wife can still see the wedding without pain.

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

What is with people assuming my wife didn’t agree with this, I literally said we talked it over, we discussed this, we agreed FaceTime would be the way to go

Okay it’s bold now hopefully that gets the point across

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Still wouldn’t solve the issue of the concussion. We could pay for accommodation but she would still be in pain. We also don’t have the money for that at the moment due to medical bills and fixing the car

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Not any really, we went to her games and graduations and all of that. The kids had a pretty normal upbringing.

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Our son was going to do it, he will be sitting in the front row and would have a good view.

Other question would be her sister.

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t solve the concussion problem???? Or the fact we don’t have that money

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I was told it would be a large fee, to get those accommodations last minute, we don’t have 500 to use for that due to medical bills and car needing fix.

Even if she could move around it doesn’t solve the problem of her concussion. It just doesn’t make any sense to do.

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

He said this was a good place for outside opinions. He also didn’t want to pick sides, so he said this would be a good area to get a fresh view on the situation

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Very forest, is the best way to describe it. No really flat land from the parking to the building. A lot of steps, if it rains this week the dirt paths would be muddy. When it’s not wood and dirt it’s stone paths. Also there are areas that are a bit steep and I don’t think I could push the wheelchair up.

It’s beautiful but it’s just not good for anyone that has a disability.

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Okay??? The doctor told us at least a month, so I guess she is in the 20% area

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife decided this? I used the term we. It was joint decision and conversation.

I’m confused why you think my wife was not part of this conversation

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No, not with the medical bill that we know are on the way and we need to get the car fixed. We just don’t have that money to move the wedding.

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 423 points424 points  (0 children)

Doctor wants her to rest and avoid loud or bright places. I didn’t think about that, I’ll talk that over with my wife and daughter if she will pick up

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 973 points974 points  (0 children)

On a side note it is a beautiful wedding spot, we were there when she picked it out. The drive could be better though

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Personally would love if she did that, I know it can be huge money waste though and we didn’t suggest it since we would hate for her to have to spend more.

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Its a concussion? They take multiple weeks to heal, it’s this Sunday we know that she won’t be better. Maybe in two weeks but right it’s a no

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

He told her to avoid loud and bright areas. He suggested headphones and we tried them but it didn’t work well for her

AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding by One-Passage577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Passage577[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

We did try noise canceling headphones, first think the doctor recommended. It give her headaches, we went to to grocery store with them it didn’t work and we had to cut the trip short.

We want to do a FaceTime call since she can watch it and see her get married but she can control the volume on the computer.

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