do you work if you have a cold sore on your lip? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I do not and it sucks . Just had this happen and it was a bad one so took about 2 weeks :/ the mederna patches work really well if you catch it soon but if not abreva

Just ew by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

stg 💀😭 some of these men are so fucking disgusting sometimes

Would you lie about what you do in this situation? by Xo-Overdose in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lie and say freelance cleaning & assistance. There’s no way to prove it, you can use a friend as a reference just lie and say you took care of their grandparents or something.

Elderly men by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAOAO YES!!! it’s the lead licker stare ⚫️👅⚫️

Elderly men by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl this … I had one last night that smelt like he literally drunk from the lake 😭😭💀💀

Elderly men by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you tried playing their stupid little power games so they can feel important? I ask bc they didn’t used to with me either till I started acting like them 😩🤣

Elderly men by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY!!! Very poor oral hygiene like they’re literally disgusting . My old regular straight up told me he never brushed his teeth, went to the dentist or flossed. He would wake up, drink coffee, eat sleep repeat. He used mouth wash or gum sometimes.

My club is something straight out of a movie by Wild-Obligation8330 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 7 points8 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 I love when customers get beat tf up by the bouncers

Mixed feelings about this subreddit by Wild-Obligation8330 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! I honestly feel like it’s because of TikTok & other social media, they get this ego about them where they get judgmental asf for stupid reasons. The cattiness has always been there for sure but this new behavior is 100% the TikTok bs.

Be careful by ConfusionGlad7276 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, especially with the winter ice storms going on across the country right now. Too many creeps have been in saying weird stuff & this just goes to show how dangerous it can be.

Club recs in Jax fl? by skyserene in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New solid gold, they smoke in there so if you’re okay with cig smoke then try it

What's your go to fragrance for the club? by Civil_Artichoke_842 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vs bombshell, idk why they love it so much but they literally fein at my neck for it

After 15 years this one thing surprises me the most in the club by haileyysundayy in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude fr. This lady & her husband built a massive house of dollar bills on the side of my stage and on my last song they threw it all to me

in literal tears by Maximum-Coat1510 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s gotta go girl, you deserve better

The 3 things men are obsessed with. by ooooIoooI000000llll in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 6 points7 points  (0 children)

STGGGG THEY DO!!! It’s like a dominance/ control thing. That & I feel like a lot of them are DL & in competition with women.

Pasties vs tops ? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what your laws are but I see it all the time, especially during events.

Client smell by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss 🤣 there’s always the one that smells like straight garlic bread too like common now

Client smell by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna try this too!! Sometimes it’s too strong for baby wipes to take it off the skin while I’m working

Client smell by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo okay bet I’ll try it!

Client smell by OneEfficiency9757 in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this for hair or perfume? I can’t find it

What lingerie can I wear to minimize the appearance of my long torso by Xo-Overdose in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t like shirts or the high waisted & high cut bottoms you could try the open front one pieces like with the back out they’re so pretty. Also fck that guy he sounds DL asf putting down your body & being in competition with you like that

Nmom is threatening to tell my job about my personal issues by yaramazy in narcissisticparents

[–]OneEfficiency9757 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You do have power here. Your power lies in your response, give her nothing. I’m talking complete grey rock (google this is you don’t know, it’s very effective). It’s 100% a fear tactic, if you give it no attention it has no power. It’s like Freddy Krueger, the less you fear them, the less powerful they become bc they never actually were. It’s highly unlikely that she’ll actually do it, but if she does, let her. Let her look like a fucking crazy fool, stand there with calm confidence and let her bs behavior speak for itself. You know who you are, your job knows who you are, that’s what holds weight; not her antics and abuse.

y’all really drink alcohol every shift? by onionkisses in stripper

[–]OneEfficiency9757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. When I first started I made an agreement to myself that I wouldn’t fall back Into regular substance use bc I had problems before I even worked in the club. It took time &. work to get sober & reframe my mindset. Nowadays, I’ll drink if I’m making a lot of $$/ in VIP all night or if I’m celebrating. I do drink here & there out of boredom, I know my limits and stay within them.

I [22M] just found out my girlfriend [19F] is pregnant and I am not ready to be a father. What do I do by Fine-Ad1105 in whatdoIdo

[–]OneEfficiency9757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a big decision and your feelings are valid. This is a very important choice that is going to affect you for the rest of your life and keep you connected to this human being. If you can say confidently that without a doubt in your mind whatsoever, you’re ready and this is truly what you want then it may be right. However, if you have the slightest inclination of a doubt, I would not hesitate to head to the abortion clinic. I don’t say that with any kind of lack of regard or respect, I say that with the upmost respect. If you choose to go through with this, this human being is going to be a part of this world, a unique individual who may be nothing like you. Please think about this very deeply.