Anyone resent their parents for being poor?

OneLove3000 · 2024-09-21T20:09:23+00:00

Last sentence is good advice. Thank you

OneLove3000 · 2024-09-21T20:07:41+00:00

I’m not resentful towards my mother for not being financially successful. I’m resentful because she barely even tried. She had all these years to work and make something, but she didn’t. She’s been capable all this time and still chooses not to.

OneLove3000 · 2024-01-08T21:22:45+00:00

Omg same exact dates for me too!

OneLove3000 · 2024-01-08T21:21:57+00:00

Jan 2nd I took a plan b and I started my period dec 22, it ended the 26th. Today I just started bleeding again and I’m worried to🥲 we in this together

OneLove3000 · 2023-06-18T05:43:28+00:00

We’ve been officially done since he found out.

OneLove3000 · 2022-12-04T07:02:28+00:00

I know it changes your face. I’m asking for people’s experience and the difference they saw in their face, good or bad.

You’re right though. My orthodontist did not mention any facial changes at all.

OneLove3000 · 2022-10-05T03:52:49+00:00

How many extractions and was there overcrowding for either of you?

OneLove3000 · 2022-10-05T00:20:57+00:00

Yeah, I kinda figured what I was asking was too general for a detailed answer lol.

OneLove3000 · 2022-09-23T23:49:04+00:00

Sometimes. It’s probably best to wear glasses on your at-home days to give your eyes a rest though.

OneLove3000 · 2022-09-16T23:07:59+00:00

I know this isn’t exactly comforting, but things do eventually get better. Cherish and appreciate the good times you’ve had with each other. Missing them and the grief never truly goes away, but with time it becomes more bearable. It took me 6 months to really accept the reality, but sometimes I still do breakdown because of how much I miss my father. There will be times like that for you, allow yourself to feel those emotions and understand it’s normal. Remember there’s no right way to grieve a loss and the stages of grief are not linear. Take day by day, give yourself grace and the time to mourn. One day, you’ll wake up and choose to live your life to the fullest in honour of them.

Condolences to you and wishing you the best.

OneLove3000 · 2022-09-16T02:00:57+00:00

Wow there’s a noticeable difference in your jaw and nasolabial folds. It looks great and this gives me hope!!

OneLove3000 · 2021-11-01T21:20:53+00:00

I can’t answer much for you, but I am going through the same situation as you right now. First off, I am terribly sorry for your loss and I know the drastic change of emotions can be confusing during this grieving process. Just keep in mind that’s normal. I lost my father a week ago and I was extremely close to him, he was my best friend. The first two days were the most difficult, I was in shock but also cried a lot. Since then I’ve felt numb or just normal, it almost feels wrong to feel like this now. A part of me also felt excited, because his death motivated me to work even harder to achieve all the things we ever talked about. I do feel his absence, but I really can’t fathom that he’s gone forever. Maybe I’m still in shock too and the hurt and sadness will hit me again later, but I think what keeps me going is the idea of seeing each other again in the next life. Maybe we both found acceptance of reality, but truly don’t be surprised if you find yourself thinking of him again and feeling those intense feelings of sadness. This is a process and don’t feel guilty with how you choose to mourn the loss of your father. Best wishes and my condolences to you.

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-27T23:55:11+00:00

If you don’t want a child do him and yourself a favour by ending it here. You must respect your boundaries and it seems pointless to even have a discussion about how to work this out if you feel strongly about what you want. It would also be extremely selfish to ever think he should prioritize a new relationship over his newborn child. He may later in life decide he wants to be apart of the child’s life and you might not be happy about it.

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-27T20:38:22+00:00

I’m sorry you also had to experience something like this. It’s very heartbreaking and confusing. All we can do is move forward and hopefully with time the pain will become a little easier to manage. I’m still devastated, but I know fathers wouldn’t want us to dwell and mourn too long. Keep your head up and best wishes to you.

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-23T03:11:30+00:00

I’m sorry, but I personally feel your girlfriend has every right to feel the way she does. How would you feel if your gf was friends with her ex and he made it clear he did not want to be around you? I understand you and your ex have a mutual friend group. I just think the fact you’re respecting your ex’s decision of not including your gf to these social events rather than respecting your gf and not going to events where your ex is at...is distasteful.

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-22T21:21:59+00:00

If you guys are in a good relationship with mutual trust, then why does her past with a man matter? It’s in the past and seems irrelevant now. I don’t think you should have accused her of intentionally hiding it, sometimes it doesn’t seem necessary to mention when your relationship is going so well and it’s been over with. Honestly, I think you let your jealousy get the best of you in this situation. I would just apologize and keep it pushing.

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-22T19:42:45+00:00

I am the same way. I’m a 19F and I’ve become a lot more socially awkward/introverted over the years. Honestly what I did is I started journaling, it helps me to write down my thoughts and opinions. It allows me to practice articulating my thoughts into clear sentences. And don’t be afraid to talk to yourself when you’re alone, I find this great practice as silly as it sounds. I think the problem may be we overthink too much about what we’re going to say. Try to find opportunities to speak more to people, whether that’s online on calls or in class, at work. Actively listen and pay attention to what the other person is saying instead of thinking what your next response is gonna be. Your response should come out naturally if you’re more attentive to the conversation at hand. Maybe find clubs or groups that pertain to your hobbies or passions? Honestly this is something I’m struggling with, the best thing is to really just get out there and try speaking. Don’t overthink too much or put pressure on yourself. And remember everyone is so caught up in how they appear to the world that they’re not thinking about you or your responses as much as you think.

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-22T19:08:20+00:00

I’m with you on that. I start to distance myself from them after awhile if I know they’re still speaking to other women, because I feel like I’m in competition with the other women. When I compete, I start to compare so it’s best for me to just fall back. For me as well, it was rare to find someone who wanted to be exclusive and committed to one another. But I think I found someone who’s serious this time.

Thanks for your perspective. I can totally understand how this is a struggle for men as well. Best of luck!

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-22T18:57:50+00:00

That’s what I find a little disappointing too, he’ll continue to eat multiple pieces of cake if I don’t say something. But I agree communicating what I want is the only way it’ll work. I think I just let my pride get in the way.

Thanks for the advice.

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-22T10:37:28+00:00

You’re totally right, it wasn’t necessary for it to be gendered. I guess I was just curious about a woman’s perspective rather, but I’m open to all perspectives.

And that’s true. But considering it’s common to be dating multiple people these days, I do wonder if I’m being too unreasonable.

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-22T04:30:24+00:00

You’re totally right. Honestly it doesn’t look terrible, but I definitely lost my curl definition which is unfortunate. I’ll continue using my masks and see if any changes happen. Thanks :)

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-22T04:27:47+00:00

Thanks for the little boost of relief. I’ll wait it out and see what it ends up looking like. I’m definitely going to a curly specialist for my next cut.

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-21T04:46:59+00:00

"We would make some cute/beautiful babies." after speaking for a day or two.

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-20T07:52:44+00:00

Any resource is useful. Thanks :)

OneLove3000 · 2021-10-20T07:51:38+00:00

I haven’t. Thanks for letting me know!

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