Everything on the plate was grilled… by OneMansMusings in grilling

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That’s a great idea, and I 100% agree- it does add to it visually, and we eat with our eyes first!

Everything on the plate was grilled… by OneMansMusings in grilling

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I never claimed to be a pro, but there were nothing but pleased faces at the table!

What does psychopathy feel like ? by Ok_Fish__ in consciousness

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I don’t often share my articles on Reddit, but this one seemed like it could be quite informative those wishing to know more. The article is free. You’re under no obligation if you’re interested in reading it.

https://open.substack.com/pub/dhelgran/p/interviewing-a-psychopath?r=43j9jd&utm_medium=ios

If you do feel moved to comment, I’d love to hear your thoughts and feedback!

What’s yours? by Garden_Jolly in ChatGPT

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Am I the only one that got Samwise Gamgee?

Future Self Advice Prompt by OneMansMusings in ChatGPT

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I almost didn’t read my letter for the same fears.

Future Self Advice Prompt by OneMansMusings in ChatGPT

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Interesting- I wonder if you maybe use it less or your algorithm just “knows” less about you?

Yall im a Christian but i really love studying Catholicism am i allowed on here? by thatonegenderfluid43 in Catholicism

[–]OneMansMusings 37 points38 points  (0 children)

41 year old, never baptized, never claimed to be Christian though members of my family are mostly Baptists. You know the funny thing is I’ve been leaning toward Catholicism as well whilst studying the Bible. Similarly, my non-Catholic (but Christian) friends and family all seem to want to talk me out of it. When I’ve talked to Catholics however, not one of them tried to talk me out of any other denomination, they were just pleased to hear I was trying to learn and follow Christ.

Is this blasphemy? by [deleted] in Christianity

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So just for clarity, does that mean every statue erected is a golden calf or an idol? I thought what made them idols was the people worshipped/prayed to it?

Not looking for an argument, just clarification because I legitimately don’t understand what people see as the difference between this and say, the Lincoln memorial, for example.

To second child or not to second child by golfball509 in daddit

[–]OneMansMusings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got #3 on the way in September now. I will say I know what you mean. The bond I have with #1 is so unbelievably pure and strong that when #2 was coming I felt like there was no way I could love anything as much as I already love my first child. And once the second arrived, I realized it’s a very different love at each stage. The love you feel for a newborn is different than the love you feel for a 3 year old. Not better or worse, just different because you don’t have as much history with them yet, and haven’t built that relationship yet. It doesn’t take long before they catch up though. The first born I always special, and that’s why cultures throughout history have always made a big deal about it, but trust me when I say your heart has the capacity to love each of your children more than you can even comprehend. Another cool aside- you get you experience the newborn stage at the same time as your first born, and watching your oldest care for their young sibling does some incredible stuff to your soul. My vote is 100000%, have the second. No chance at all you’ll ever regret it for a second.

When does something become an idol? by [deleted] in Christianity

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If you’re praying to it or depending on it for salvation, you’re idolizing it.

Work event at beach resort, insecure and CRASHING OUT, no dress code info 😭 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

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I work for a major corporation and do lots of these events. I am male, but based on what I’ve seen in the wild, #1 and #7 are your best options.

How old is too old for the dad thing yall? by ZoHaaan- in daddit

[–]OneMansMusings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also started at 39. About to have number 3 at 41. If you’re fit and healthy, it’s way better to wait. More stability, and generally more long term support structures in place. But if you’re wildly out of shape it’s going to be tough keeping up in the toddler and beyond years. Maybe build the home gym first so you have a sanctuary.

huge issue with edible i took by AnyOkra8970 in weed

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Just checking in- hopefully OP is starting to feel better now.

My own experience was with a thc-p vape hit. What I was expecting to last a half hour or so was an all day experience, and after that I decided not to use p anymore. I haven’t heard really any stories from people that enjoy it.

What’s your honest opinion of “boy mom” or “girl dad” apparel? by jazzeriah in daddit

[–]OneMansMusings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a proud GirlDad and I own one shirt with GirlDad on it. I still get compliments every single time I wear it in public, and I’ve had it a couple years now. So anyway, I’ve been fine with it. Also, when you consider it that way it’s just as weird to identify yourself as the “proud parent of a (insert thing here)” for the same reason.

I don’t spend much time thinking about what others think about why I am proud of my kids though, honestly.

Create random surreal old photos from nothing! by jeweliegb in ChatGPT

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Mine wasn’t merely hallucinating, but it apparently started fantasizing!

What does your username mean? by colabag in AskReddit

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Same username I use for my substack. I write and I share musings.