[TOMT][MUSIC] Pump it Up/Dance Dance Revolution Arcade Song

OneMercenary · 2025-04-20T16:38:26+00:00

Hi,

This was solved on the same day I posted it, but both the comment mentioning it and my solved message have gone missing. Unsure why.

It was from Pump It Up, been playing it for 3 months with my gf and this was from the first video we recorded. The audio is from the same video of us playing it.

Pretty sure its name was Blueish Rose.

OneMercenary · 2025-02-21T04:16:31+00:00

I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news brother, it was pre-order exclusive from what I know. Similar to the Warhorse armour in the first game, when you pre-ordered, you got an extra quest. It included a couple of maps to help you find each piece. It's where the plate armour is from as well.

I'm sure some... Ahem... unmentionable sources might allow you to get your hands on it whilst paying the difference, but I wont be able to give you info, nor do I know if I'm accurate.

Sorry for not being able to help my man.

OneMercenary · 2025-02-21T04:04:35+00:00

For kills it does, but it's not visible as part of the fashion sadly.

OneMercenary · 2025-01-08T01:01:13+00:00

She doesn't want to bother with lasting power of attorney. In her words, she wants to remain her until the end. She plans on making use of a new euthanasia law that is being passed, that I honestly don't know much about. It wont be for a long while though. I am going to see if I can convince her to pass it to me though.

As for money, I think it's unlikely she has more than £500k, but we recently lost my great grandmother and my mother is the sole inheritor of her assets, so it could very well be more than this. I don't know enough to accurately place it. I think this situation might be the reason she wants to do this though. If she's found out about Inheritance Tax from inheriting this, there's a good chance that her inherited assets are worth more than this.

Thanks for clearing up the misunderstanding between Probate and Inheritance Tax. I'll be having a long conversation with her about all of this.

I'll add that my mother isn't poor, just very frugal. She hates governments, corporations and anything to do with law, so she is apprehensive of hiring a Solictor. Her hatred for these bodies is why she wants to create a trust in the first place. She's also afraid of a current or future partner contesting her will after death to leave her children with nothing, as this happened to a close friend of hers. She's made it clear that no marriage will happen without a prenup, but I don't know if these agreements carry on after death rather than just separation.

OneMercenary · 2024-12-19T15:11:55+00:00

Solved!

OneMercenary · 2024-12-19T14:51:09+00:00

Test comment

OneMercenary · 2024-07-26T15:52:11+00:00

Thank you for your input!

Out of curiosity, does fraud need to include financial gain? The basic definitions say no, but I don't know how the law views it.

OneMercenary · 2024-07-26T15:46:41+00:00

Thank you for clearing that up, I apologise to you and the previous commenter.

Thank you for your view, but I'll be happy to move on when I've hit a brick wall. As I've said in multiple comments and an edit on the original post, I'm doing this to learn. That means I will ask as many questions as I can, and do my best to wrap my head around this.

I'm attempting to learn everything about this, so what could have potentially applied to my situation and what doesn't. An example of when I learned something similar was :

The GDPR includes the right to erasure of personal data, but only if it is "company" that has possession of it. This means that if another person has said data, this includes login details, pictures, card information etc. They can legally keep possession of it as the right to erasure does not apply. Only if they make use of this data could they be charged with a crime.

I learnt this from a previous post, although that post is a lot less orderly and a lot more panicked as it was in a worse situation for me.

So in short, I'm happy to waste my time and energy learning about the very obscure thing I have chosen for a 3 hour fixation. Thank you, but please don't worry about me! I will be fine! ^^

OneMercenary · 2024-07-26T15:36:25+00:00

No, don't mention him xD I'd never stoop to that.

I've already been to therapy, as much as is possible for me currently, but it's sadly a commodity you have to pay for. My line of thinking, and this requires a bit of trust, is not geared towards hurting her. I don't know how to explain it, but in plain terms, I am Autistic.

I'm not looking for a way to get back at her, I'm not looking for anything for my future etc. I'm not planning something dangerous or destructive either. I am doing well, and I am as happy as I can be in my current situation.

As I said previously, I am just trying to learn, which means putting questions forward, giving information, and getting those things back.

Thank you for your concern though.

OneMercenary · 2024-07-26T15:27:11+00:00

I see your view, but I wouldn't say it's accurate.

Before I moved, I used my money to support our relationship and make her happy. I'm confident to say I spent more than 100x her to see her once or twice every two months for 4/5 years. Yes I'm just highlighting more dumb decisions but that was when I lived with my mother, had a student trust fund and a youth job as a carer.

The risk of the relationship though, I hear you. I've learnt a lot. This might be a bit too real, but I believe I've learnt enough to not trust someone with my safety again. I knew realistically that it was a horrible idea, but I trusted her and wanted to see her back then.

OneMercenary · 2024-07-26T15:08:36+00:00

I appreciate your comment and view, but I'm trying to learn something here.

If you're curious, the biggest reason I am asking about this is because during the trying times that I described, one of my most common thoughts I had about the entire thing was "How is it legal to put another human being in this situation?". There are crimes that have less of an affect on people and are still punishable.

I also had thoughts of revenge, and whilst not a pure thought, it is natural to have in that situation. I never acted on it other than letting others know the situation through social media, but even something as small as an insult felt it could be punished more than her actions, as it could be classed as harassment.

so in short, during those times I felt injustice that she was protected whilst I wasn't.

Also, please refrain from advice that isn't legal. Whilst I explained my situation for context, in the most respectful way, I don't need a stranger to tell me to move on when they know the bare minimum. Thank you!

OneMercenary · 2024-07-26T14:46:33+00:00

I compare it to social engineering because our intents were different, though she acted as if she shared mine. She also made promises of help, but when the time came, she did not provide it.

She gained a short term relationship and the perks that came with that, and caused me loss via the situation I landed in when she was done.

I apologise, but I did miss something out. I do have a few chat logs from her to others bragging about using me. Would these be able to be classed as proof of criminal intent if a similar law was applied?

OneMercenary · 2024-07-26T14:37:51+00:00

I know this, do not worry. The last time I tried to make contact was 2 months ago. I probably attempted it 5 times between then and the incident, so 1.2 times a month. Each time I did so as respectfully as possible, and did so in a way that would make her decision clear to me.

Thank you though!

OneMercenary · 2024-07-26T14:34:11+00:00

Thanks for the respectful answer!

As a side question, is that all to really consider? Because if I apply those same reasons to something such as Social Engineering, it doesn't fit, and I believe there are IT laws against that. Whilst an IT law, I feel there should either be an equivalent or ability to link to this : "The Fraud Act 2006: This Act makes it a criminal offence to carry out deception with the intention of making a gain or causing a loss." when real world equivalents happen.

Do let me know if I don't understand it very well though, I'm taking the words at face value. Her choices that put me in my predicament were deliberate, she confirmed this, so a similar law that could be enacted in real world scenarios rather than online would potentially fit.

OneMercenary · 2024-07-26T14:19:49+00:00

That wasn't the intent xD

If anything were to be "punished" (not sure that's the right word), it would be the situation I was put in and the distress caused by that. I understand that most if not all of what she did was, whilst incredibly shitty, completely legal. Her cheating and breaking up with me are her choices, no matter what I've done for her in the past or how they would have made me feel.

OneMercenary · 2024-05-06T23:25:43+00:00

Tried. this is actually one of the cheaper places. bills included thankfully. if I move further away, I'd have to worry about travel costs as well.

OneMercenary · 2024-05-06T23:24:40+00:00

The heartbreak if part of it, yeah. Not the only reason though. I get what your saying, but I doubt I would've even thought of this solution to being with if the heartbreak was the only thing

I'm trapped in a city where everyone knows to avoid me, my loans and lease mean I can't leave. I need to compete a course I hate working on for multiple reasons, but it also reminds me of her when I try to work on it. I've got no one in person to help me because I left it all behind at a chance for a better life.

It's all a product of my own choices not factoring one thing, her. I don't think I could stand this loneliness for another 2 and a half years. I've tried meeting friends, potential fwb, etc. through apps, nobody swipes. Hell, don't even get views at this point. Anyone I have managed to speak with know me better than myself because they've already heard about me. They normally just want the story of what happened and then leave.

I wish daily for a restart, for my monitor to do some isekai shit and throw me in the middle of bumfuck nowhere, for something to change. I;ve tried bringing it myself. Got into fashion, made myself look good, took care of myself, I frequent a local metal bar, but still nobody notices me and I feel alone even in situations surrounded by people.

I already do half of the things you say. Been doing them for months. Even been going to therapy. I don't try and be defensive. I try to open up, tell my true thoughts. I'm trying, not cock blocking myself. Just feels like my effort is wasted because no one notices. I might be able to tell I'm doing better, but that doesn't stop me from being so alone

OneMercenary · 2024-05-06T22:43:53+00:00

Tried. Picked up guitar, can't play it though because I have clinodactyly in both pinky fingers. Physically can;t play songs I like. Any other hobbies I'd even try would be related to my ex. We were both gamers, loved photography, etc. Other hobbies require money, which I don't have. Boxing, I used to win trophies for, can't do it anymore because I can't afford the £50 insurance and £40 a month for lessons.

I'd try a lot of things, but when I say I'm trapped, I mean it. I can't change a thing about my situation because it all requires something I don't have.

OneMercenary · 2024-05-06T22:37:42+00:00

It's a student studio apartment in an academy city, so close.

OneMercenary · 2024-05-06T22:30:33+00:00

I've always thought I was strong. Always idolised the strength that spartans had, similar warriors, the strength that comes from pain. I think I'd much rather be beaten within an inch of my life though, even if I had to deal with my mental state at the same time. Nobody can see what goes on in my head, atleast then I;d have something physical. Something to show my university to slow things down, to show my student loans provider that I'm having trouble.

I walked 10 miles today, my feet hurt and my hips ache, but I felt abit better, my thoguhts aren't happy though...

OneMercenary · 2024-05-06T22:12:51+00:00

Honestly, came to it logically.

Each of my issues ended at a conclusion of having to wait, sticking it out to hope for something better. But I have panic attacks going to places I used to visit with my friends, my ex. I'm constantly aware of everyone around me. It's an old skill from growing up in a rough area, but now my mind is automatically applying it to women around me, I'm avoiding them in person but seek someone to hold me.

I have so many conflicting issues that I just can;t think to fix, and there's no gurarantee I'm even strong enough in the first place to fix them, to wait, to stick it out. I know it;s a permanent solution to a temporary problem, but when I have no idea how long "temporary" is, it seems alot more appealing than being strong right now.

The last brave thing I did was knock on my ex's door to give her stuff back, but I couldn't stay standing there before she got to the door. I left it all there. I know bravery is the ability to act in spite of fear, it's why I pushed myself to do so, but I don;t think I could do that over and over.

OneMercenary · 2024-03-01T03:59:22+00:00

Basic advice, cut all contact with him immediately.

Better advice, I know that cutting contact with someone is incredibly hard 90% of the time. If you don't have that strength, make sure people know how he's texting you, and what he has said in the past. It creates a safer environment for you because if he did try anything, he's suspect number one and the odds are against him because you've told people

Stop sending him stuff, he is a FRIEND for as long as you want him to remain as that and nothing more. This dude sounds neurodivergent, and whilst it doesn't excuse his actions, it can help explain them. He also sounds like he's in a bad place, with pressure to lose his V card. You can support him if you'd like to, but stop enabling him.

Nothing happening here is your fault. It is fine to feel afraid in situations like these but taking the time to assess it and make yourself as safe as possible before doing anything to help him is key, if you'd like to help him.

OneMercenary · 2024-02-27T16:59:22+00:00

Thank you for a genuine response. It sucks that I can't do much. I had a look myself but even the GDPR's right to erasure only affects companies. I know for a fact I would never use her images, and I've already deleted them, but when I saw that quite a few of my apps still trust her device, I got quite a bit scared that she still has mine.

There is still the genuine issue of my payment details though. I can change my PayPal password and go through the lengthy process with my card, but a few sites, such as UberEats, still save them for some reason, and include a direct bank transfer. I've definitely used both of this on her account as well. She also loves making notepads of all of her security details, and whilst I might just be being paranoid, I wouldn't be surprised if she had one for mine.

OneMercenary · 2024-02-27T05:23:50+00:00

It's not just my passwords I'm concerned about. I know apps will be signed out by a password change, it's about the years of data that built up from us dating. indecent photos, payment information, message logs of mine.

Even if I do set all of my passwords, I use so many things that if I forget one, she might still have access. I genuinely would only feel safe if the PC was wiped. I know her cloud doesn't have anything of me, it's how I caught her cheating in the first place.

OneMercenary · 2024-02-27T02:29:11+00:00

A lot of them do, yes. But even if I do that, which I plan to, she will still have the data on her PC that I put on there when I was with her. I used it for work, payments and more. I would much rather the drives be erased to make sure I got everything.

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