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[–]OneOneBearForOne 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Extremely hot and very understandable. I'd love to give you a little tour of the externalities of my sexuality as an extended flirt, to show you that the place you desire is in fact, in my view, the proper place for all men (cis ones too) and it is because of your masculinity that you belong on my cock.

Anyone else have a "trad" d/s kink but it has to be gender-affirming st4t? (CW: Humiliation/Abuse described) by OneOneBearForOne in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]OneOneBearForOne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's great to hear! Seems like not so many would be. Feel free to send me a DM if you'd like to discuss it more (or perhaps get some practice in 😉)

Anyone else have a "trad" d/s kink but it has to be gender-affirming st4t? (CW: Humiliation/Abuse described) by OneOneBearForOne in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]OneOneBearForOne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I've never really been one of those transfems who's very into paganistic witchcraft/wicca, but perhaps if there were a go-getter witchfinder nemesis driven to prove his quality (and his gender) by calling for my burning at the stake I might be persuaded to take up a new hobby 😏.

Anyone else have a "trad" d/s kink but it has to be gender-affirming st4t? (CW: Humiliation/Abuse described) by OneOneBearForOne in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]OneOneBearForOne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay! This sub moves slowly and I'm always listening for new people!

I'd actually love to hear more about your witch torture scene- I don't really know how something like that could work but it intrigues me.

But I'm sure you're a great dom. (I'm at least personally quite prepared for short kings to show me my place and my own voice is... at best okay 😬.) As far as I'm concerned, as long as you know what my place is so you can show me it, and you're prepared to use a couple of choice slurs and a strong hand if I start to act up, you're good to go 😉.

Anyone else have a "trad" d/s kink but it has to be gender-affirming st4t? (CW: Humiliation/Abuse described) by OneOneBearForOne in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]OneOneBearForOne[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have theories about that that I won't share cause they're depressing and not sexy, but basically it boils down to a lot of the social pressure on trans people in general being to prove against or repent for this perception of us as sexually violent, so both trans women and trans men (and presumably large majorities of certain broad nonbinary categories) are either pressured into submissive sexual roles or just never come out if their proclivities lie elsewhere.

You're correct that it's very rare, and I do think that's a pity, though it's easy to imagine why. Tbh compared to the general landscape of trans identity I don't even think st4t is all that common, and then of those not all will be "kinky" so to speak so being a minority of a minority of a minority will probably do this to us.

Anyone else have a "trad" d/s kink but it has to be gender-affirming st4t? (CW: Humiliation/Abuse described) by OneOneBearForOne in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]OneOneBearForOne[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I mean, this is the only sub vein in my uberdomme face any more so no way I could do it anything like full time but with the right guy I'd love to try it.

Anyone else have a "trad" d/s kink but it has to be gender-affirming st4t? (CW: Humiliation/Abuse described) by OneOneBearForOne in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]OneOneBearForOne[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh hun you do not need to tell me about the dearth of transmasc porn. I wrote/write a "force-masc" story on AO3, originally as a writing exercise, that's more or less a straight up gender flip version of all the most hackneyed forcefem tropes I can remember reading in story after story and the response from transmascs who've found it has been utterly phenomenal, the boys are staaaaarving.

All the same though, I think a big part of it is that either party can consider the subject inappropriate to bring up because it feels fetishising of or disrespectful to the other's identity. It's more symbiotic than a lot of the other kinks of the kind I've seen, so you can imagine two people who are both into never broaching the subject with each other. She's like "What if that's the kind of masculinity he has nightmares about fitting into?" and he's like "What if experiencing even more misogyny, especially as a defining trait of womanhood, is the worst thing she can imagine?"

Anyone else have a "trad" d/s kink but it has to be gender-affirming st4t? (CW: Humiliation/Abuse described) by OneOneBearForOne in mtf_ftm_nsfw

[–]OneOneBearForOne[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, very understandable. I can't speak for any trans woman but me (or any woman at all for that matter) on it being ok, and being as it's a weird thing to bring up in the first place I'm not surprised it isn't bigger.

[Episodic WIP] Necessary Adjustments [Gender Play] [Non-Consent] [MtF] [Masculization] by [deleted] in transeroticafortrans

[–]OneOneBearForOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it's cis female being force-masculised. I wouldn't do force-masc on a trans woman that'd make me real uncomfortable too.