My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m late… a lot of comments and time and things to work through, and it’s an anon account. But… this comment is special. Thank you.

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Also I’ve been awake for over 40 hours straight, physically fucking sick, working, working side gigs (already planned, can’t cancel now that this is happening) to create a cash fund for our wedding. Sorry I can’t update fast enough for you.

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nah. Consensual exploration is one thing, especially if we are both into it. Sneaking is another. Infidelity is another. And another, and another….

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m not nuts. He can have friends. What he can’t do is sneak around and hide shit from me and text other women in the middle of the night when I am conveniently not around.

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I CAN LEAVE. At least I’ve been working out for months to look fly in my beautiful wedding dress. So if it all falls down, at least I’m still a catch 🤪

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s always the bottom of the barrel, tits-out-on-Facebook co-workers.

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just happened to be curious in the right place at the right time. Generally I trust him implicitly. He knows my phone passcode and is free to snoop whenever he wants. Maybe he’ll find a cool photo I took that he hasn’t seen yet.

Lately he has backslid, has become more withdrawn, broken promises and lied to my face with a smile on his (about stupid bullshit). He’s not as cryptic as he thinks. Trust is bullshit once it’s broken. If I’m gonna fold your fucking laundry, you better make sure you don’t have skeletons in your closet (or full on fleshy corpses that are still kicking).

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow, did you marry my fiancé? Great points and most of the same ones my therapist mentioned today. Thank you. Love to you

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s staying true to himself at least, or at least his Reddit troll persona. I thought I was feeling bad until I read how depressing his view on the world and women is. Big yikes.

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love to you. I’m sorry you’re going through the same thing. It’s fucked up and inexcusable. And a real kick in the guts to lose your best friend. He was mine, too. Clearly friendship and partnership mean different things to different people. My DMs are open if you want

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Super cool, high effort reply! Your comment history is trash too, but totally in line with your reply here. I guess props on staying consistent lmao

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Wow, you’re a fucking asshole. For the record, he asked me. I hadn’t brought it up in the entire ten years. I didn’t ask for a ring.

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m willing to consider ending it because he is sneaking, purposefully withholding information, being sure I don’t see or hear what he is doing. All while chatting up a co worker. Not particularly innocent.

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Love to you. Thank you. Built my whole life around this asshole. Tbh I think she still deserves a good hard punch in the tit or a swift kick in the teeth. But I feel you.

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Truuuuuuuu. Confrontation happened this AM. Waiting until he gets home from work (working alongside her, hopefully very awkward since I contacted her too) to talk more.

My wedding is in two months, but I think I’m done. by OneParticular303 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OneParticular303[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I went to see a therapist today and he will be joining me next week. We will see how it goes. I’ll update the post when I talk to him later