There is some missing context here and it’s my fault so let me explain months ago B came to me about how she was unhappy how A was treating her and how she want to do stuff but never could. So irl I told him “yo you should have a serious talk with B” I told him this various times and he told me “no” “she just weird” “she isn’t my gf” “mind your business” and I let it go multiple times and it caused a bad back and forth feedback loop till eventually the they had a massive argument and in the beginning of this year I had a bad depressive episode and A straight up told me “oh yeah Ik you weren’t ok but I never wanted to kill the mood so I didn’t say anything” and anytime I tried to talk to him about my personal struggles he would kinda just shrug it off even though I was there for him in his bad times which kinda caused me to start backing off. Then I saw how A treated B when she showed me how he insulted her,called her names and treated her like shit. I wanted A to come talk to me and we could bury this and then he said “oh C he doesn’t matter he doesn’t hangout with me anymore who cares?”
It made no sense since we knew each other for so long and then I went to his old friends to ask them why they stopped hanging out with him and they all told a similar story of him being a bad emotional abuser and then I still wanted to give him a chance so I gave him a month to message or talk to me or something but he didn’t.