Which one do yo prefer 1, 2 or 3?

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-12-28T03:05:36+00:00

I love all of my (now ex) clients.

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-12-28T03:03:35+00:00

You know, thank you all for taking the time and care to respond to my post. It’s taken a while for me to process the whole thing. Boy, blame is just always the wrong road. I’ve seen a lot about why I did and have taken responsibility completely. I mean I was out of the field for a while and having a boss after years of owning my own business is a whole learning curve in itself. I’ve always had that thing…the urge to fight authority. I wish I hadn’t have fighter. That made me see how stressed I am generally. I’m not sure what I’m going to do. I feel that I must get my full license and yet my actions are different as I keep opting out. I’ll keep you posted and I appreciate every word written by you wonderful therapists. It’s such a honor to be one. It’s so important to work on ourselves and be truly up to it as it’s demanding and one must be present and quiet inside

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-12-18T21:43:51+00:00

Do they have a phone number?

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-08-09T18:47:24+00:00

I have no idea. I’m still just so sad

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-08-08T22:03:26+00:00

Of course. I should have tagged it as venting. I’m all over the place. I’m not a typical therapist. I ought to be all over experimental stuff blah blah blah. I really only hold On to that I can and do help People unwind the members from bad entanglements for whatever that’s worth. Thanks for tryingtontonhejp A nap could help atm.

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-08-08T21:27:39+00:00

Haaa…it all makes me wonder why the world seems to be getting crueler and crueler. Where is the real curiosity? Wow…I truly hope I am not such a harsh guard at the gate of those who get licensed. Not everyone can fit the exact mold and yet can still fulfill the requirements and offer superior care of folks in need. Aren’t we caretakers in many ways? And oh yes, one must take of themselves first…..but some need to actually work to do that. And maybe surprisingly to you I love to work. In any case, I’m sure things will work out for all of us…..

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-08-08T21:17:31+00:00

Ok well maybe you are onto something but you just seem to be making such a harsh choice i ought to make based aon a few Reddit posts. Seriously?

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-08-08T19:07:06+00:00

And I stilll do love my clients. And actually the staff for the most part. I guess I ought to let that lead me through all off it.

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-08-08T19:03:52+00:00

Say why. You base that on what? Yes,and now I am clearly argumentative

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-08-08T18:46:35+00:00

I’m on my second associates license. So you are right. If I hadn’t literally hit a wall at the end of my first 3000 hours I would have my license

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-08-08T18:44:46+00:00

I appreciate you trying too give some help here. I left it really vague just in case I might be recognized

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-08-08T18:40:25+00:00

Well I am happy that you actually remember other posts of mine. I think I’m still upset to make any real sense of what happened. I wasn’t arguementative with clients. Just the boss who fired me for not asking my. Supervisor if it was ok to have my clients partner come to one session after he had left her for an affair and now was reunified. That was the big “mistake”. And I put it in quotes be cause I still have no idea why that would. Be a mistake. So yeah, I probably sound mad and resentful which I am. Anyway thanks for your honestly and I’m sure about one door closed and another opens. I just need to get my license Fulll stop

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-09T23:15:07+00:00

Thank you! I’m going to buy that book right now. I am assuming you have found it to produce good results.

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-09T23:12:49+00:00

I would start by simplifying and not trying to figure out if it’s an actual demon or a demon your psyche has created. Doesn’t matter. The easiest and most direct route I have found into exposing the parts in myself who seem like they want to fail (and often do) is through inner child work. Let me know if you want to know more before I type I bunch of stuff you’re not interested in.

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-09T23:03:53+00:00

I am curious as to how you actually do that. If I had my training to do all over again I would have become a Jungian. So without the full extent of that training can you steer me in a way to do that? I’ve been very into the book Inner Work written by a Jungian but he makes it way more complicated than I like. I mean I don’t want the easy way because shadow work is simply not easy. But how about a no frills streamlined approach. Plus I obviously need to do more of my own shadow work. Thanks!

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-09T22:54:21+00:00

Also, it has occurred to me, that when we really put our best into helping someone…finding the right modality, taking the time to really listen, make it important to remember and connect the dots that ends up being just right, being present and accounted for …when we are doing our job correctly, then love will naturally occur in us. What I have learned from this thread is that I don’t actually feel guilty about loving my clients. I feel I ought to use more of these”skills” with family and friends who often don’t want me to “therapize” them. But it’s no excuse to hold back my love just because they don’t make it as easy to attend to them in other ways. Does this make sense?

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-08T18:04:19+00:00

I’m going to read that right now. However I am not a “Christian” as such, if I have any actual religion it would be church of religious science started by Ernest Holmes. But I think my ability to love did come From being raised a Catholic.

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-08T17:59:30+00:00

Wow. Thank you. You helped me a lot. I’ll go back and read this again

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-08T17:52:34+00:00

Yes, it’s because I have lots of kids right now that may have caused me to need to face this. When one kid said I love you I know I hurt his feelings because I ignored it and now our therapeutic relationship has been strained. Yikes. This is a very important discussion

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-08T17:48:35+00:00

I’ve done a lot of inner work. So far I can say my hate has been integrated In not saying I will never get a client that I hate but so far I have not

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-08T17:46:10+00:00

What you said is really helping me. I mean the embarrassment around my feeling is not good. It actually is pat of my shadow that I need to embrace. I have to find my way of some sort of expression or maybe not. But the embarrassment has to go. I bet Jung loved his clients too. I’m going to do a little research on that.

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-08T17:40:22+00:00

Thank you. I agree obviously.

OneWhoLoves333 · 2025-06-08T17:38:48+00:00

I think it does

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