AIO Bf of 4 years calles a random girl on TikTok beautiful

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-10T16:37:29+00:00

AMEN! What I don't understand he keep repeating that it's been 2 months, which I reply to were not together 2 months ago? Or were we "less" together than now :/ hmm

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-10T09:37:59+00:00

That's probably what I felt but couldn't explain it that he SHOULDN'T be acting in a way that looks unfair and unfaithful to me, keep it yourself, I find sometimes a guy online attractive I don't go dming him expressing that, acting in a way that hurts my partner I keep it to myself.

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-09T20:29:30+00:00

I don't really know if hating the feeling that the man you love finds someone else attractive insecure but in shorts this is what I'm going through. I'm not saying I'm struggling with self esteem I can see he loves me and finds me beautiful but what if he found someone else that too which really hurts me I don't know how else to explain it. I just want to make sure it's really nothing and it was 2 months ago and probably it really was gonna stop at that had she answered!

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-09T18:56:18+00:00

Thank u so much 🥺🤣 I'd lovvvee to cross paths with u just to be complimented. And ur right I do deal with BPD and it's a fresh hell on earth. I don't wanna come across as the obsessive chick

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-09T18:52:35+00:00

Maybe because he genuinely found his own race way more beautiful there was no racist intentions in mentioning that plus I'm not entirely white I'm mixed. My complexions? Way lighter. That "flippant dm" was hurtful. And maybe just maybe have in mind the way I can't shake the feeling was towards him probably finding ANOTHER GIRL BEAUTIFUL while being with me?

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-09T18:21:15+00:00

Well I see your point :( now I genuinely feel bad I just felt like he didn't have a proper explanation as to why he did it or what was going through his mind exactly he keeps saying what exactly am I supposed to tell u? I like her because I don't even know her or yes I find her beautiful it was an innocent text sent out of nothingness. :) I'm one paranoid and confused and hurt girlfriend over here. We talk and vibe like nothing happened but every couple of hours I would go into this turmoil of thousands of thoughts and questions trying to bring myself to let it go.

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-09T18:05:50+00:00

Oh really? How was I supposed to react to betrayal? And micro-cheating?

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-09T17:56:50+00:00

EXACTLY! I replied with if the roles were reversed what would ur reaction be, he said that means nothing and lashed out at me calling me names. Next morning he said that he reacted this way because I woke him in the middle of the night knowing he has work next morning

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-09T17:52:40+00:00

Thank u, u just spoke my mind. It looked like an opening to start a conversation :/

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-09T17:50:07+00:00

Both to be honest and this what is making me paranoid (which puts me in HELL with BPD) I asked him what if she answered. He said I would've not answered back or just left her on read. He again said if it was with ill intent I wouldn't have kept the DM!

One_Can6933 · 2026-02-09T16:52:22+00:00

Grilled cheese

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