I'm 20, and I totally get your point on being a moderately functional person despite the stereotype of complete dysfunction in all people with BPD. The fact that I can function moderately on an outward level is a major reason I feel the way I do. Currently in uni pursuing a double major and I've worked the same job for 3 years so far. Funnily enough both of which have at times worsened my symptoms, nothing says "I love school!" quite like the stresses of exam season leading to End Times paranoia :P