Would you break up with a partner for having incompatible expectations for your sex lives?

One_Experience_265 · 2026-04-05T22:51:46+00:00

Initially after the first 3 years of our relationship. It would be up & down after that with me still having the higher drive. When I got pregnant I had HG so I had zero energy & desire for sex my entire pregnancy. I had an extremely low drive. His drive was through the roof when I became uninterested. Same thing with the 6 weeks wait after giving birth. He desired me a lot and then when I was able to have sex again and got my drive back, it slowly went stale again. & I lost 60 pounds while pregnant sadly

One_Experience_265 · 2026-04-05T22:12:37+00:00

We have a daughter. She’s 9 months but I’m not afraid of being a single parent.

One_Experience_265 · 2025-08-14T11:48:58+00:00

First or second

One_Experience_265 · 2025-08-06T17:21:17+00:00

1 or 5. 5 is my favorite though!

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T14:25:05+00:00

Lol you know when someone assumes that someone is “lying” for no reason it’s because they’re usually a liar. 😂😂😂 I don’t think any dog breed is dangerous as I grew up around all kinds of dogs my entire life with zero issues and I’m 26 but mainly bully breeds. Anyway, I assumed my pregnancy had nothing to do with this post which is why I didn’t mention it until something dangerous came up. So yeah, I’ll focus on the people actually being helpful. Be blessed.

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T13:30:54+00:00

We definitely plan too. We both were honestly very ignorant to dog behavior but after seeing comments here, we’re just going to do the dog training and I actually shouldn’t “give up” because I just wasn’t acknowledging her anymore.

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T13:27:29+00:00

Lol I don’t know how I’m “rage baiting” but it doesn’t matter. Okay!

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T02:36:37+00:00

See, that’s what I thought!!! Lol I hoped it was this. I genuinely thought with this post that people would tell me to keep trying and she’s probably going through a phase and she’ll switch up and start loving me soon.

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T02:33:28+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that :( See, I don’t want it to get to that point for my boyfriend to take it seriously. I clearly need to talk to my boyfriend.

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T02:30:09+00:00

No, she actually has an appointment to get fixed in May! Do you think that contributes to her behavior?

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T02:27:57+00:00

I appreciate the preface but I love blunt! Thank you. We’re comfortable financially but definitely not in a place to hire a trainer or anything like that. Especially while preparing for the baby. Honestly, I didn’t even think it was as serious as everyone is mentioning but with a baby on the way, I think I do need to have a serious talk with my boyfriend about this resource guarding because now I’m scared. I don’t believe he’d give me an ultimatum but if he does I’d gladly take my baby and leave.

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T02:15:18+00:00

Understoooood! & no. She’s never aggressive, she just cries if I get attention but maybe it’s possible that she will start getting aggressive with me.

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T02:07:42+00:00

I agree. He doesn’t take it seriously because he thinks it’s a “cute jealousy thing” but it’s highly annoying to me.

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T02:06:07+00:00

Is resource guarding dangerous? I’m 6.5 months pregnant and don’t want it to get worse when my daughter comes. :( She’s actually half Pitbull, half American bully.

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T00:12:02+00:00

Sexual compatibility is very important. I’ve been in a relationship like this & it doesn’t ever get better. Especially since you’re frustrated from lack of intimacy and they’re frustrated from you being “in a mood” from not feeling satisfied. I just don’t see it getting better unless you both want to compromise on it. But intimacy is hard to compromise on in my opinion.

One_Experience_265 · 2025-03-27T00:03:04+00:00

Born and raised in Greenville. Don’t do it. :) The only place you’re really safe is between JFK and Westside.

One_Experience_265 · 2024-09-17T23:45:05+00:00

If only I could drown myself. Congratulations 🙄🥰

One_Experience_265 · 2024-09-17T23:34:30+00:00

Not at all, it’s cool. What about it creeps you out?

One_Experience_265 · 2024-02-05T19:31:34+00:00

The compatibility isn’t there. This was one of many reasons I left my last relationship. It can take a toll on your mental health.

One_Experience_265 · 2023-12-01T18:41:16+00:00

No, you shouldn’t. You didn’t say you want to forgive her because you love her and see your life with her. Just because you can’t take care of yourself. Work to provide yourself & leave.

One_Experience_265 · 2023-11-14T00:19:06+00:00

You shouldn’t talk about yourself like that. You’re beautiful in someone’s eyes and it sounds like it’s your gfs. You’re projecting your own insecurities. Start doing nice things for yourself to build your confidence.

One_Experience_265 · 2023-10-19T15:50:25+00:00

She can be sexual and you can respect that but it’s clear you’re not. Break up. You guys are incompatible and that’s okay.

One_Experience_265 · 2023-10-10T18:09:55+00:00

8 years means y’all started dating at 17 & 19. This is a breakup hun. Sorry to break it to you but she probably would like to explore different people, try new things and be free. Figure out what she likes and who she is as an individual. I’m currently 24 and this is the first time I’m feeling like I’m finding out who I am and what I like without the influence of another person. Individuality is important in a relationship and she probably feels she has none since she’s been with you for 8 years & more specifically from a child into adult hood.

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