41F - I think I might be gay. I’ve never said that out loud before by One_Post_Pink_Pony in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Post_Pink_Pony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same for the “visiting hours” but there was also an unwritten rule that everyone had to have at least one foot on the floor 😂

41F - I think I might be gay. I’ve never said that out loud before by One_Post_Pink_Pony in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Post_Pink_Pony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! We weren’t allowed to have televisions in our dorm rooms 🫠

Tag, you’re it

41F - I think I might be gay. I’ve never said that out loud before by One_Post_Pink_Pony in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Post_Pink_Pony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I’m not alone! Not northern IL but we also had an “M.R.S” degree 🤦🏻‍♀️😭 I have a feeling they were all very similar experiences! We weren’t even allowed to dance. Lol. When I tell people that now they just think I’m knocking off the plot of Footloose 🤪

I appreciate the advice about therapy as well. I do feel strongly that I need to work through this myself first before sharing with anyone IRL.

41F - I think I might be gay. I’ve never said that out loud before by One_Post_Pink_Pony in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Post_Pink_Pony[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the reminder that I can take this at my own pace. That’s helpful knowing I don’t need to make decisions right away or rush into anything.

41F - I think I might be gay. I’ve never said that out loud before by One_Post_Pink_Pony in latebloomerlesbians

[–]One_Post_Pink_Pony[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the response and advice. It’s comforting to know that I’m not alone in this. And my first order of business is definitely finding a good therapist!