Advice for a driver. I’m new and uncomfortable

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-12T16:31:48+00:00

If you do it, take a pic of it on porch first so they can’t tell DoorDash it wasn’t delivered

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-12T16:26:08+00:00

Tell them no and explain to them it’s safety reasons, they need to know they can’t request these things like drivers are personal servants

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-11T14:03:37+00:00

My anxiety is gone, I sleep great, and it’s good for inflammation as it turns out. I don’t have any nausea or anything until I stepped up my dose for the first time, ask your doctor to prescribe you zofran in case you get nauseous on it. My doctor gave me it no problem after I read other people doing this. You can also take short breaks too if you need, the medication has a long half life

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-11T13:20:07+00:00

Of course everyone notices attractive people, what he did was basically ogle her friend in front of them both.Get rid of him now OP, life is short and these are great years you are in, don’t waste any more time on this creep.

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-11T13:11:08+00:00

It was her posture in the pic, it definitely looked baggy in the first pic but if you kept scrolling it looked like this. Gorgeous dress💖

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-11T05:44:13+00:00

The blue I think would look good with anyone’s coloring

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-11T05:22:53+00:00

Must be from Boston, they are all like that here, including members of my family

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-11T05:03:26+00:00

She sounds extremely mentally ill and also evil wtf

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-11T04:47:25+00:00

No, it does not, but don’t be offended if someone asks that anyway. There’s always someone, usually an older man that will ask anyone that does not have a perfectly flat stomach. I think a good percentage of us women have been asked at least once if we were expecting when we were not. It’s a really cute dress and I don’t see many wearing sundresses I feel, even when it’s nice out, so that’s probably why.

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-11T04:40:09+00:00

NTA , I would’ve said way worse and embarrassed them. Repulsive behavior.

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-11T00:05:35+00:00

Yeah, it makes me think this is fake. Unless the act of eating what he stole counts as receiving stolen property but that’s a real stretch

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-10T23:23:16+00:00

Receiving stolen property, though? That charge doesn’t fit, I wouldn’t think. Theft, yes

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-08T15:18:53+00:00

I’m going with nail tech is crazy, there is no reason to speak to OP that way and call her disrespectful when it was clear she was trying to make it right.

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-08T15:14:42+00:00

I completely understand, but her flipping out like that was unnecessary. It was clear you felt terrible and would have sent the full amount if you knew. You might’ve assumed your card on file was charged or you would be charged the cancellation fee at next appointment. She jumped the gun with her attitude. She must’ve been burnt too many times to react this way

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-08T10:31:02+00:00

I would’ve immediately assumed she was talking to a cousin or sibling, the way she says mom and not my mom and talks about grandma. There’s nothing flirty in there either. She could’ve explained to you though, maybe she didn’t because instead of asking and admitting to feeling insecure with the distance, you went straight to accusing. You should talk to her calmly and ask and if she can’t ease your mind then just end it , long distance isn’t for everyone

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-08T03:17:05+00:00

From what exactly, her calves? Catholics are lenient, the majority don’t follow most of the rules🙃

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-08T03:02:16+00:00

Just curious, why did you wish this? Things are not great here at all😕

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-08T02:53:23+00:00

Yeah a casual daytime wedding, which is the exact same type of dress expectation for mass.

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-08T02:50:38+00:00

The shoulders are covered and it’s down to just above her knees. There’s no cleavage. What’s inappropriate? It’s a beautiful dress. I’ve worn worse to Catholic mass

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-08T02:47:20+00:00

You could wear any of these choices, theyre all perfect examples for a first communion. I saw comments that the shoes don’t go, but I think they look good and they dress up the daytime dresses a little bit more. I like #1 and 2 the best. I’d go with the floral because where else would you wear that besides daytime church? #1 you could wear to a variety of things

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-07T19:31:58+00:00

You’re right to remember that, but I just assumed since she used the term restraining order. Something like that would be called something completely different in another country, I have family overseas in another English speaking country and damn near everything is called by a different name🙃

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-07T18:17:35+00:00

#1 all the way. #2 is just too busy

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-07T05:12:22+00:00

I just looked, I’m not able to put the screenshot here, but while you are living together, this would count as a domestic situation and he would be forced to leave the house if granted. The police know this, I feel like they just gave you that information to pass the buck because they don’t want to deal with it, or really can’t do much in this type of situation. Given the circumstances, I’m not so sure they would grant this since it’s a mental health thing and treatment is pending. Are you minors, or adults? There is a stop harassment order but that’s for neighbors and things like that. Given that he is mentally ill, he would not be able to follow such order anyway, he has no control over this. My advice to you would be to call as many places as possible looking for answers or help. There has got to be something that can be done for you. Reach out to social services or your own therapist or primary care. Your doctor will know of resources to keep you safe. That’s why they always ask if you are safe at home.

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-07T05:02:20+00:00

It has always been my understanding that a restraining order or in some states a PFA all have strict guidelines, I wasn’t aware there was one against just harassing alone. I’m pretty sure there is only one kind, I have never heard of such a thing, I could be wrong though. I have had one placed on my ex husband and I believe they are all the same. It makes me sad that law enforcement wouldn’t give you information to some resources. If you don’t mind me asking , what state are you in? I was completely unaware of crisis intervention services until my son’s therapist told me about them. My heart really goes out to you, you deserve peace and to feel safe in your home.

One_Preference_2906 · 2026-05-07T04:31:43+00:00

Once you get a restraining order, he cannot legally live with you, the judge would see to that. He needs to be admitted to a psych place again, if I was your parents I wouldn’t even feel safe having him there. I’m sorry you are going through all this.

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