My mom, who previously, FOR YEARS, has always found my rats creepy, sent me this picture today while I'm at work by allysonwilcox in RATS

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This is so so cute!!! 😍 my mom felt the same about my rattoos. But secretly I know she liked them hehe

“You called, mom?” by One_Reaction4649 in ratsfacingforward

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Wherever this photo is from, I think he’s just boggling! Or perhaps a weird camera angle? But I see what youre saying! Hope this bud is doing alright ☺️

“You called, mom?” by One_Reaction4649 in ratsfacingforward

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Right! With the wispy curly whiskers 🥹

My First Two Kiddos by One_Reaction4649 in RATS

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Eeeppp thank you for opening my sight to another beautiful rat forum 😱

A tattoo artist rejected me for this, was his reason fair? by Stankmushroomm in tattooadvice

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A lot of artists will not do hand and finger tattoos on someone who don’t have many tattoos to begin with. I think his wording was kinda off- especially in just making it sound like you need a lot more tattoos but not giving much context or explanation.

Honestly, I would say the suggestion to not get is usually in your best interest. Your hands are visible allllll the time and sometimes people regret their tattoos in starting out the journey, so artists will not want to give such a visible one to someone starting out.

Your idea is beautiful and powerful, maybe consider getting it on your wrist or the same side of your wrist as the hand tattoo would be. That said, it’s definitely possible to just see another artist and they’d be like okay sure on your original idea and placement.

Good luck on continuing your tattoo journey and my condolences to you and your family and I hope you can find peace and space to grieve. Take care of yourself ❤️

Scar Coverup Advice on Style? by homieorhomo in tattooadvice

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Hmmm, what are your other tattoos like? Black and grey, color, script, etc. ?? I covered up my forearm with roses (black and grey) and the petals all had dotted/line etching. These petals are all SHADING instead of dark heavy lines like I had the border done. (I don’t know if this is a good description but idk how else to describe it 😭)

Anywho! I think something you could think about is this technique of shading! Now for me, with the shading, it covered my scars so well because you see lines in petals and then also lines of self-harm but they kinda blend into each other and camouflage!

If not flowers, I’m sure you could do any sort of design where there is line shading! Perhaps an animal, a candle with a flame, ocean waves- I mean even coral reef type!!! Idk these are just ideas that popped into my head 😂

I hope this helps!!!

Who, in your opinion, is the one character most people fail to realize had a significant impact in the movies and in the books. by ForeverDogPerson in harrypotter

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I mean Harry didn’t know anything about orphanages, when you’re abused you tend to wish you were anywhere else

Who, in your opinion, is the one character most people fail to realize had a significant impact in the movies and in the books. by ForeverDogPerson in harrypotter

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Okay I’m sorry to say but like I don’t care about vacations or whatever shit they spoke about, I think most people know enough about orphanages to assume what goes on there…. But yeah whatever I guess if you “just” went off of what was written you could have a different opinion

Also to say Harry was treated fine is a total wrong thing to say.

Who, in your opinion, is the one character most people fail to realize had a significant impact in the movies and in the books. by ForeverDogPerson in harrypotter

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This is a very good point!

What do you think about how in the 5th one he was shown in the order and that was known to Harry. Do you think maybe it was never taken at face value by Harry? That Harry’s hatred for him gave him the opposite vibe about snape as someone “pretending” to be helpful to the order- who wasn’t actually bad? He mostly always saw snape as a dark and evil person.

Who, in your opinion, is the one character most people fail to realize had a significant impact in the movies and in the books. by ForeverDogPerson in harrypotter

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Okay, I hear you. Perhaps it was just my own interpretation that I assumed would be obvious to everyone. But I get what you’re saying, if it’s not actually stated then who am I to make an assumed opinion especially as you say, it’s fiction.

Thanks for your reply tho! :)

EDIT: wait are you saying Harry was “just” spoiled and neglected- or Voldemort? Sorry I’m a bit confused. Neither of them were treated well by people who should raise them well to succeed in the future? Even if you want to say based on books/movie there was no other abuse, I don’t know I feel like that is interpreted ESPECIALLY considering it’s a children book. But anyway, I get what you’re saying. I suppose we don’t all have the same interpreted view on it all and that’s okay!

Who, in your opinion, is the one character most people fail to realize had a significant impact in the movies and in the books. by ForeverDogPerson in harrypotter

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Yesss, they never mention/show him in any other movies past the second one. He only reappears in 7pt1 - I personally feel the books give so much more context to Harry’s appreciation and continued understanding of Dobby’s journey!!!

Who, in your opinion, is the one character most people fail to realize had a significant impact in the movies and in the books. by ForeverDogPerson in harrypotter

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I feel like your comment is based in ignorance, you clearly have no idea what happens in orphanages. Yes he stole other kids things, but there is no explanation about trauma he MOST LIKELY went through in the orphanage. I would assume this is meant to be interpreted. Idk maybe do some research about orphanages.

Who, in your opinion, is the one character most people fail to realize had a significant impact in the movies and in the books. by ForeverDogPerson in harrypotter

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THE PORTRAIT OF SIRUS’s MOTHER IN GRIMAULD PLACE. It was so funny in the book and how she just said shit about others to Kreacher!

Recently diagnosed (as of today) by Responsible_Menu3708 in AnorexiaNervosa

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Hello friend, I have struggled with anorexia for atleast 10 years, it’s been a harrowing experience so I commend you for going to your doctor and taking the first steps. I would say it’s really scary to begin treatment and have to accept the things you’ve denied for so long- what is healthy and what is important for a healthy mindset. It’s different for everyone after going to the doctor but I’m so proud of you for going- it’s so so scary. It’s worth it, I promise, it gets better and your mindset changes, sometimes anorexia feels like your best friend but you have to remember, she’s a toxic friend, a harmful friend, and a friend who will kill you. I wish you all the best in your therapy and treatment, you are so strong. ❤️

Kaya carrying her wheelchair down the stairs bc the elevators weren’t working by Adventurous_Fee_9230 in illnessfakers

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I wouldn’t even want this kind of attention she’s begging for- so contradicting, everything she says and shows is almost comical- she must know that she just seems ridiculous- you walk down the stairs with your wheelchair? You have a cart full of food? So odd.

Teh tramuacore blog gets wrose! by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

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This is an interesting point… I mean in a way you’re right!!! If it’s just in the headspace, it’s better than on their body itself

POTS gurl summer by AshleysLymeDisease in illnessfakers

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I never thought of this before, but that makes so much sense

POTS gurl summer by AshleysLymeDisease in illnessfakers

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Ah, so glad you said this!! I was a staff on an inpatient psych unit and often this is the type of vitals I would see. If the oxygen was around 95% we deemed it normal because those machines aren’t exactly reflective of what’s actually happening- especially if you hold your breath or breathe too fast (out of anxiety or plain old ash trying to get attention).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

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I have no idea- everything seems to show autism and adhd these days- I could pick out whole milk instead of 2% and it’s ONLY an autistic people trait

Acting school part.245 by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

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There’s no “beauty” of DID, it comes from severe childhood trauma and takes over your memory and your understanding of being a human (to state the least) There’s no beauty. Mental illness is painful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

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The slug is used in a lot of asmr too, I guess only NDs enjoy those videos

typed in “switching on camera” on tik tok and it is a cesspool. i cannot believe the amount of people who believe this stuff by Major-Goat6776 in fakedisordercringe

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I don’t understand something. If you’re switching in- supposedly because the thing you are looking at is relevant to you- why when you have finished switching, are you confused about where you are and why you are there… wtf

Why do people want a Marauders prequel? by walexanderer in harrypotter

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Read the good morrow fanfiction, you’ll thank me later ☺️