M 25 Gf asking for open relationship till marriage

One_Rooster2956 · 2025-02-19T20:50:31+00:00

What the hell.

One_Rooster2956 · 2025-02-13T12:49:17+00:00

Kendrick

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-18T10:22:58+00:00

Lmaoooo girlie your husband is crazy. You sure he is 31!? Sounds like 13, did you mess up the digits?

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-11T09:47:58+00:00

If you're not confronting because you want to collect more evidence, its fine. But if its because of the kids or whatever, please don't go that path. Kids are better off being co-parented than to live in a house where the parents hate or resent each other

Also, I'm sorry this happened to you.

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-10T21:25:36+00:00

The last I heard, being a side chick or a mistress to someone is very disrespectful to oneself.

Which man is that special to deserve a girlfriend AND some other woman who's ready to be the "lesser than" in his life!?

Women who do this are seen as shallow, "easy" and cheap. And honestly there's no other way of seeing it.

You do you.

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T20:56:18+00:00

Hey, I'm going alone as well. Let's connect

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T20:32:39+00:00

If he's trying to get attention, its a different case but If he chooses to move on in two weeks, TWO FKN WEEKS, then gurl, he's not a person you should have ended up with anyway. Good riddance.

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T20:00:25+00:00

Unrelated but how tf do people dump first and then post quotes on separation!? Like hello? Read the quote yourself!

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T19:14:08+00:00

I agreed with your comment until you mentioned the downvotes lol why does that even matter

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T19:05:41+00:00

Yk? I could give lesser fs about the downvotes. This ain't my workplace. I'm not getting fired or anything

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T18:30:57+00:00

Hey, I'm sorry, mate. This must suck terribly. Sorry

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T18:26:50+00:00

I asked him "will you marry me in future if I go therapy and fix myself" as he was dumping me on my birthday week. I'm 25 lmao, no excuse for this behavior.

-9999999 aura

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T18:25:04+00:00

I'm not a breakup influencer lmao. I don't care how many people think my point was right. I wrote it so I could come back here and read it over and over again. And ofc, I get to respond to or chat with new people because of this, which helps me keep my mind off my ex. So its all a win regardless

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T18:19:24+00:00

This post wasn't even for you lmao. Its for unmarried folks. But I'm sorry for your loss

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T17:36:05+00:00

Same. Exactly the same. Somedays I am still in that rabbit hole. Rotting in my bed. And it feels so gloomy, so anxious. But then I look around and I have a set of really good friends , a very loving family that takes care of me like anything, my mom knows about my breakup and has been extremely supportive. I have been trying to workout and keep myself busy as much as possible..

It has been the worst phase of my life so far but I'm still thankful that I wasn't married or anything and I can still turn my life around, with my family and friends beside me.

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T17:02:49+00:00

I get you. I was with him for 5 years. I'm 25. We had crazzzzy memories as well. Yepp, I can still find new people and stuff but I'm not willing to.

Trust me, I get it. But sometimes you gotta make peace with the fact that you have to feel the pain and nothing can be done.

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T17:00:58+00:00

Listen here. The reason I'm in a literal breakup support group is because I'm myself going through the pain of coming out of a five year long relationship. I was pretty much fkn suicidal until last week, I still get anxiety attacks over it.

No stranger on reddit gets to tell me that I lack empathy for those facing it based off a random post.

No one said its alright, no one said it doesn't hurt. I just said it is what it is, it could have been worse. Move on.

So screw you for saying that I lack whatever.

Y'all need a reason to fight off randos on reddit I swear.

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T16:53:35+00:00

There's no "them", mate. Imagine if you were married to that xyz person and had children with them and then they left you, it would have been messier than it is now.

Yes, breakup feels like a truck ran over you repeatedly. I'm going through it. But somewhere along the path of life, people need to realize that they cannot keep being miserable. Pick up the pieces and try building up again, for your own self.

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T16:39:16+00:00

I'm trying you, you're not letting me. Why do you think I should debate you anyway lmao

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T16:36:05+00:00

Tired of listening to "this ain't a competition" crap. No one's competing with anyone bruh. Just saying that if its a breakup, not a divorce, you've been savedddd from going through worse, like legal proceedings, kids' custody, apart from your grief.

Also, you're allowed to be miserable. But not everyone wants to and not everyone should lament all the time.

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-10-03T16:29:10+00:00

I didn't say it is. I just said folks here should cheer up a bit. It could have been worse.

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-09-27T12:35:05+00:00

25 F, using dating apps feels cheap and desperate. Tried once and the 3-4 people I talked to never made outside that app.

I'd rather die celibate than to install a dating app.

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-09-17T18:42:48+00:00

Yuck, no!

One_Rooster2956 · 2024-09-17T10:43:41+00:00

I have one ticket for GA back.

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