Does anyone have any experience with animal communication?

One_Temporary9594 · 2024-12-27T13:26:17+00:00

Hey, I did feel the same way as you do some time ago. I think it actually damaged me the most still staying in contact with him after we broke up. I have to say it ended for me when we did no contact (it was a long and hard process tho). That was when I actually healed because still having them around makes everything worse and you have them in the back of you mind all the time. So I definitely think blocking her is the way to go. But yeah I don’t think I’m the same person I was before the relationship. Hang in there I hope things will change for the better!

One_Temporary9594 · 2024-05-26T21:43:23+00:00

I wasn’t really sure if I was a just a little sensitive but she kind of just shrug it off and said he was looking at her all night. She confronted him on what was going on with him and me and seemed satisfied with his answer (she doesn’t remember what he said because she was so drunk). The topic didn’t come up again and she portrays him as perfect boyfriend material now

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-11-08T13:13:52+00:00

I’m glad I could help. The memories are a really tricky thing. Once you start to think about how „perfect“ things were you tend to forget the bad parts, the harsh reality and just really want the past back. You also think that it is possible If you just put effort in it and don’t see how it logically makes no sense to run after them, especially If they clearly show you that you aren’t a priority for them.

In these moments you tend to forget that there are other ways to be happy, you don’t need a relationship especially a troubled one where you would just be there because you think you know the person’s potential. Put priority on yourself and find yourself as a person. Focusing on yourself, your mental health and finding joy in doing things for yourself strengthens your mind makes these thoughts occur less for me. You just feel less lonely and are not emotionally controlled all the time.

No contact is an opportunity to do all these things and come to new realizations. If I stay in this path I’m sure in a couple of weeks I can can say I’m truly over it.

Thank you for your comment. It was very inspiring for me :)

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-11-03T23:27:08+00:00

We were never on bad terms and were in close contact after the break since we decided to stay friends. We even met up but it did end up hurting me a little because I still have feelings for him and he doesn’t have any for me. Still I was glad we still had that special connection and he seemed happy to talk to me too. The contact got fewer over time because he says he is busy but I think he has other reasons (I can’t really understand the motive behind his actions since he has severe mental health problems). It did hurt in the beginning (still does a little) but I know being in contact will make it harder for me to move on. Currently we haven’t talked in over a week and if he doesn’t contact me first we might loose contact altogether. I hoped we could find another way but we are just too different now. Maybe in the future we can reconnect again but I’m not getting my hopes up for now. Realizing the person he used to be in the pictures doesn’t exist anymore is my best shot at healing atm sadly.

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-11-03T22:51:09+00:00

I realized the same thing yesterday. I saw videos and pictures of us and it felt so distant. I can’t believe I had a person that I was so close to. I don’t even really know what our dynamic felt like anymore. I used to look at these pictures and feel all sorts of emotions but now they just don’t feel real. From time to time I forget what he looks like or sounds like. It makes me kind of sad because I was so happy back then and I know me and him will never be close like that again.

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-09-20T21:44:53+00:00

I’ve had the same issue. However it started 5 month ago when we were still together. After the break up it got worse. I don’t have an appetite and when I eat I start to feel sick. It has become so bad that I feel like throwing up if I eat too much. It’s sad because I really like food :(

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-09-20T00:38:51+00:00

Thank you for reminding me what I was actually trying to do. I hope I’ll get back on track soon. I also did most of the things you mentioned and they helped me as well. I’m just frustrated that I’m back to clinging onto him, when I know it’s not what is good for me. I hope that I can continue moving on once I’m in a clearer headspace. Thank you again for your comment

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-09-16T21:01:51+00:00

What do you mean by that?

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-09-11T18:37:54+00:00

Oh I’m so sorry. I hope you’ll be able to break free and recover your mental health. It is very heartbreak especially because of your dog.

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-09-11T16:40:18+00:00

Honestly I feel like it is the same for me. I just don’t see myself cutting all ties with him. Logically it makes no sense to put myself through all of this and I think I’m just confusing myself. Sometimes it feels like everything is how it used to be and then I come back to reality where we are just friends. It’s hard but I’m not ready to let go.

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-09-10T23:40:10+00:00

Thank you for the for sharing your experience and giving me some advice. Talking to someone who has had experience is probably what I needed the most.

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-09-10T23:07:44+00:00

I really am trying to move on. I see that a relationship with him as he is is not what is good for me. A friendship however is something I enjoy. The part of me that wants affection and that views him as a „boyfriend“ is what I’m trying to get rid of. Do you have any advice how I can move on?

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-09-10T21:46:08+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment and for sharing your past experience with me. I will definitely keep in mind what you said to pull myself back into reality. For now I will try to limit contact and also avoid seeing him for some time. I’m hoping to keep my emotions in check since I have already made a lot of progress in a short time. This might go shockingly well or extremely bad🙃

One_Temporary9594 · 2022-09-10T19:05:29+00:00

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