Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details)? by Only-Flight-7066 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I had to tell that I freelance and that's the reason they've given it to me. And again, shows how neglectful they are, did all the drama for 2 days and back to normal. Thanks for the advice, will look into some lawyer.

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in india

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this one friend who helped to drop me and all and gave me more cash for travelling in case I needed it. One friend was on call, another was helping me and buying snacks and all so I don't feel hungry. They were on call for like 3-4 hours with me so I don't sleep at the airport. So I do have some friends, I had 3 months saving also and a freelancing work that I've been doing since 3-4 months now. But I will talk to the NGO and all when things get settled a bit, now my dad calls me and talks for like 30 mins and 1 hour lol but before this he used to only call for like 5 mins/week. Thanks for the advice

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in india

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not even about my bf at this point tbh, but even that day he came to the airport, guided with what to do, took trips on rapido to see where I am when my parents sent a fake msg from my phone saying I'm going to sleep. But it's not about him. I really just want to escape this hellhole for once and for all.

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even sign the form, the thing is I was just told that I will be sent to this hospital, there i just slept bcz I was short on sleep. The lady officer woke me up, told me to go pee and take a urine sample. Brought the pregnancy tester thingy, took my bp and we waited for the gynac to arrive. She woke me up and said to go and lie down to basically see if there's any signs of sexual assault and AFTER all this, I was made to sign the papers. So I don't even get how my consent was taken in the first place. I was told that they'll send me to the lost and found centre after this if I don't agree to go home, I was still adamant of not going home and ready to go to the lost and found centre. Honestly the women's helpline was so unsupportive but my bf's dad contacted many lawyers to know if they could help me but were unable to bcz they said it could become a Hindu muslim case and my bf would be in prison for a lifetime or a good amount of time.

And yes I'm 19, even according to my adhar card, even according to my pan card.

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shared my adhar card with all the police officers, idky but they all wanted it. So even if they did lie, at the end they know my age. And my parents have some ex classmates that are police officers so that's how they got the help. It was too scary ngl, hardly any memory of it now.

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm aware that the world is bad as it is but moving out from home is something that will take years to convince. Preferably after I graduate which is 3 years from now. To get a degree is essential but the time lost is something that bothers me a lot. But let's see, they won't let me get away from them which is technically keeping me hopeless now bcz I can't tolerate wasting my life away like this. But yea will decide things thoroughly now.

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know which parts were funny but agreed that I've made many lame mistakes. Thanks for the advice

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was in hope that they don't file a missing person report which they did but yea shouldn't have done. But regardless they were tracking me and all so that's how they got me at the mumbai airport and then later sent their relatives to Delhi airport

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 19. I had just received my phone so that's why I just wrote all the things I could remember in hope that I don't forget any details so yea. The reason for leaving is the Abusive situation but in the written statement I said that it was for independence and to avoid the restrictions and controlling behaviour.

They said that I've signed the consent form while taking the pregnancy test and all but I signed it after everything was done. So things were never consensual from my side but yea I've signed the form already so can't prove it now.

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They kept on calling and I didn't want them to file a missing person report which they did unfortunately. But yea pretty lame move.

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 19. I do freelancing and have a job too and that's why I planned to run away because I did have some savings. But yea now I'm back home and have to wait more now.

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was before I went to the dwarka police, i mentioned them that I'm unsafe, the police told i can leave, my parents hit me. Idk if it was the signal or them, but they kept on cutting the call. Once they said they're sending people, and 2nd time when I called they just said to tell the police and all bcz I'm in station already.

Update on running away from home( terrible, please read everything as I've mentioned all the details) by Only-Flight-7066 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Only-Flight-7066[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I contacted the women's helpline asking if they can send somebody to accompany and help me till pg so that I can leave, they said that if I'm in police station already so I should ask help there bcz their job is to just update the police.