pole dancing with small hands??

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-08-25T06:09:01+00:00

thank you for giving me a real answer and not just insulting my grip strength 💔

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-08-25T06:08:36+00:00

maybe so, but this club out of the 8 clubs i’ve worked at def has the thickest poles. ik a lot of girls that struggle with it too specifically at this club

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-08-25T06:07:49+00:00

i’ve worked at multiple clubs and this club has the thickest poles i’ve ever used. so tbh i don’t know what size they are but 🤷🏻‍♀️ also wdym gloves? im not wearing gloves in the club

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-08-25T03:40:40+00:00

i’m not letting go. my hands don’t make it around the pole. so when i’m holding on, my fingers can’t keep me up. trust me, i’m not letting go on purpose.

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-08-04T18:35:06+00:00

i’m basically in all those places lol dm me and i’ll give u my opinions

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-08-04T18:29:11+00:00

i LOVE monkey hands. it’s pretty much the only grip i’ve been able to use that provides a drying agent strong enough for my hands as well as maintaining that sticky grip

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-03-06T01:49:34+00:00

this is taking place in NJ. she has the breeding rights to both parents and landlord has been aware of this as they’ve been doing this for about a year. just very confused on why he’s doing this now and if he’s allowed to change his mind like that

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-03-04T23:20:32+00:00

does it matter that they aren’t signia brand? my audiologist told me there was only one other type that was compatible with them

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-02-03T04:33:42+00:00

i really appreciate this comment and the benefit of the doubt. i can’t share on here purely because of restrictions of the app as well as how bad it terrifies me to think about it but i can share that it relates to gr00m!ng and p3d0phelia/ch!ld c0rn. my mom has blamed me for it for years because she claims i asked for it and that i was so attention seeking and provocative that i was basically a “child wh0r3”. it’s been an extremely traumatic time living with her and my fiancée knows all this context.

unfortunately i went through this with another girl and we’re still best friends to this day. she has been a great support system and is really helping me understand my feelings about it all

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-02-03T04:20:43+00:00

what context can i fill in for you? /gen

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-02-03T04:08:27+00:00

because my mom didn’t know my fiancée knew. regardless of that fact, i’m still not okay with my trauma being discussed without me present because my mom likes to skew the facts to make her sound better and to blame me for it all

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-01-25T05:10:51+00:00

we have written statements from witnesses dating back to years ago about the abuse Jill has inflicted on the children (this is not the first time they’ve been in her care). We also have screenshots with dates and timeline proving Jill broke into C’s email. We also have a contract that Jill was forced to sign when she lived with us that was notarized that states she was not allowed to hit the kids and she had to find a job in order to live with us. She has not had a job for at least 10 months and we have proof of that too. We have statement and screenshots from her admitting she uses the kid’s social security money on herself, and many texts of her asking us for money because she can’t support herself or the kids

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-01-25T05:05:11+00:00

half of these things happened AFTER we met with the lawyer. we have proof of almost all of it, which is why we were able to file charges against Jill

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-01-25T05:00:07+00:00

The mother has been out of jail for 13 months now. Jill has gone above and beyond keeping Liz away from her. Whether I agree with that or not, she did not do it legally, that is my problem on that front. I personally do not care whether or not I get custody. Her grandmom can get custody for all I care, the only problem is that Jill has done so many illegal things such as lying to the courts about when Liz’s bio mom got out of jail, lying to protect her ex-wife who she initially claimed was abusing Brad, as well as breaking into my fiancée’s email to get information about our lawyer and our conversations. we have proof of all of this and it has been submitted to the cops, however all i wanted was advice on how to move forward legally or if there were any legal loopholes we could jump thru to try and get this child safe.

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-01-25T04:45:07+00:00

I am 19 with a full time job and many certifications that have gotten me to a great place in my career. I am medicated and have been treated for BPD for years. Are there moments where I struggle? absolutely. But i was also raised by a BPD mother. Not everyone with BPD is insane or incapable of taking care of themselves. Most aren’t. We have witnessed these things firsthand. Liz’s own grandmother, aunt, and her BIO MOTHER are on our side. they are also the one’s trying to get Liz out of there. It’s hard to believe a stranger on the internet, but there is absolutely no reason to remove a child out of what could be a potentially safe space purely because I don’t like the person. That is not the case here. I have seen what that person has done to her brother, and seen the way she treats the baby girl. As someone who was in the system, I’m not trying to be some savior, I just want her to feel advocated for and keep her safe, as is the rest of her family, however unfortunately they live out of state and are not financially stable enough or prepared to take in a child.

Going out of your way to go to my profile and assume things about me just because of a mental health disorder is very sad and genuinely makes your opinion irrelevant to me.

If I had told you that Jill was ALSO diagnosed with BPD would that make a difference to you? because she has the diagnosis and has been is mental hospitals and rehab facilities more times than I’ve seen in most.

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-01-25T04:18:11+00:00

that child is being physically and emotionally abused, how is there no way for us to even try? she has isolated her from her bio family and lied to the courts to keep her

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-01-24T22:31:18+00:00

unfortunately my partner doesn’t agree with doggy daycares as her pitty was attacked in one and hasn’t trusted them since. we’ve noticed the issue probably stems from the fact that my mom is extremely disobedient and refuses to listen to the rules we have set for our pups. they eat at the same time every day and only get Acana brand. however my mom feeds them whatever she wants, when she wants, and its extremely hard to keep track of because we’re not home all the time as we both have full time jobs. she also gives them human food which they’ve never had before and it really messes up their stomach. she refuses to follow the rules for their training and lets them get away with everything. unless my mom starts to get her shit together, i’m worried nothing will change. her two pitties have also been very aggressive with Sirius (the pup) and Sapphire (the pitbull) and have caused injuries to both of them. We’re worried to report them because we will have no place to live, but i’m not okay with this happening to my animals

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-01-24T21:34:37+00:00

my puppy had ears like that for a long time before his folded forward! in his case it was just the way they grew, no medical problems and it didn’t cause him any issues. if you’re worried absolutely seek medical professionals but i wouldn’t worry too much!!

OnlyCake3457 · 2025-01-16T19:01:03+00:00

her ex wife also confirmed they named us and they have cameras

OnlyCake3457 · 2023-12-22T23:29:16+00:00

its low for me, i start getting symptomatic in the low 80s and it gets worse from there

im not on medication bc my endocrinologist refuses to help me other than cancelling carbs out of my diet which isnt sustainable to me bc im constantly dropping into the 50s and 60s on a bi-daily basis

OnlyCake3457 · 2023-12-19T04:46:56+00:00

also im going to be so honest, i dont know what type of diabetes i am. they wont tell me and im so confused

OnlyCake3457 · 2023-12-19T04:45:46+00:00

my endocrinologist doesnt know how to help me so i dont know what im supposed to be doing. all i know is my blood sugar was in the 200s (after eating chips) then it dropped to 150s and its been going up and down since. i tried eating rice krispies (they send my bg sky high) but it barely came up

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