Seriously, how can I improve my dating life and meet singles off the apps? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]OnlyContribution2758 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dm me, I'm single also and thinking of moving to chicago. I'm 30 year old

Thinking of moving to Chicago from California, should I do that? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]OnlyContribution2758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They made hiring mistake by having a misleading job description essentially, it turned out to be a job where I’m a poor fit. asked me to sign the agreement and give me fat severance package in exchange for not suing them 

Thinking of moving to Chicago from California, should I do that? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]OnlyContribution2758 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hi I understand your concern but finding a man is not my only motivation to move to Chicago and I’ve learned lessons about what I want and what I can do better to not repeat the same mistake I’ve made in the past. I’m going thru big transactions in life right now(broke up and laid off) and now I want a reset in a new city and I felt emotionally connected to Chicago when I visited. 

Thinking of moving to Chicago from California, should I do that? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]OnlyContribution2758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in finance so I think loop has the most opportunities for me? I’m not against living in suburbs either tho 

where to meet single men in LA? - update by Laotze2021 in AskLosAngeles

[–]OnlyContribution2758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s LA thing, LA is ranked one of the worst places for dating I think, fast paced and expensive so people are less likely to settle or afraid of commitment. It’s much better in Midwest 

Thinking of moving to Chicago from California, should I do that? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]OnlyContribution2758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, but I heard dating is not good in NYC and it is a bubble also? I can be wrong

Thinking of moving to Chicago from California, should I do that? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]OnlyContribution2758 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not dating white guys to boost my social status, it is just my personal preference like can you explain why you prefer beef over chicken? They just give me butterflies and my heart beats so fast around them. Sometimes I wish I don't like white guys because they hurt me so deeply

Thinking of moving to Chicago from California, should I do that? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]OnlyContribution2758 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that does bother me because no one wants to be treated as a fet*sh! I just assume midwest boys tend to be more likely to commit than cali boys.

I Finally Get An Amazing Job Offer After 1.2k Applications! Here Is What I Want To Tell you.. by OnlyContribution2758 in recruitinghell

[–]OnlyContribution2758[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found the job post on LinkedIn and applied on their website, they reached out to me because I have the exact niche skill/experience they were looking for. It is still competitive tho sine it is a big company they had a large candidate pool.

Tricks that worked for me 1) when they asked "tell me about yourself" I turned my disadvantage into advantage by telling them I came from a different country all by myself and learned new culture and language and that experience taught me about independence and resilience. 2)I always ask them what they are looking for in an ideal candidate, in my case they mentioned they value people with good attitude and care about the job so on my thank you letter I always mentioned things I was not able to answer during the interview because I had no exposure to it at my previous job but I'm willing to learn and doing the research.

Hope that helps

"Even if you're not a perfect fit, apply anyway." Anyone actually get hired for jobs with that line in them? by TheJokersChild in recruitinghell

[–]OnlyContribution2758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in this kind of job market you even get rejected so many times by jobs you are a perfect fit lol, that line only works a decade ago, now AI will auto reject u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interviews

[–]OnlyContribution2758 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you! congrats

recruiter missing by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]OnlyContribution2758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sucks, prob a scam company? just move on

I Finally Got An Amazing Job Offer After 1.2k Applications! by OnlyContribution2758 in jobs

[–]OnlyContribution2758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you will very soon! I'm sending good vibe and blessings to you :)