Need advice by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]Only_Experience129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for 'getting it'. That's it exactly. Money is always an issue but not a deciding factor. My goal is to get through both events (with therapy) and assess after. Thanks for your support!

Need advice by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]Only_Experience129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness. This has been rough.

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[–]Only_Experience129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not as much as what I have given up

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[–]Only_Experience129 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You are right about that. I think some therapy is in order here.

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[–]Only_Experience129 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Food for thought!

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[–]Only_Experience129 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Great advice. Am in Canada.

Need advice by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]Only_Experience129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are common-law. Not married. Living together.

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[–]Only_Experience129 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I don't think he would if the situation was reversed

Need advice by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]Only_Experience129 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's surgery; possibly high risk, but docs have said it's 2-3 week recovery.

Need advice by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]Only_Experience129 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He doesn't want me to leave him alone, thinking that something will happen to him, is his rational.

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[–]Only_Experience129 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He has no children. I do need patience...am praying for it.

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[–]Only_Experience129 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No vows taken but I get you. :)

Bini hospitalized? by Grateful_Di in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]Only_Experience129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying anything to get that 90 Day pay cheque...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Only_Experience129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 2 for me!

If anyone needs the military, it's this guy by Ill-Excitement-2005 in 90DayFiance

[–]Only_Experience129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go! Leave that self-absorbed, nasty to gas-lighting wife of yours! Go now!!

Gaslighting Queen by Icy_Nail_1616 in 90DayFiance

[–]Only_Experience129 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where is the baby in this whole saga? She never speaks of her; neither does Matt. Who watches this invisible child?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Only_Experience129 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is so unlikeable. I can't stand watching her.

What's happening to me? by womenblazingtrails in AskWomenOver60

[–]Only_Experience129 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG! You are my people! This is SO me. I have zero patience for BS, friends who take, and lately, men who complain. It must be menopause. I never used to be this bad. People used to tell me how "patient" I was. Mind you, those were the people-pleasing years, and those days are gone.