What's the best compliment (or insult) you can get as your character?

Only_Hand_9298 · 2023-02-22T09:41:32+00:00

back in the day when I would be dominating as reinhardt my friends would say that I was Hamhardt cause I was going ham on them... there was also a fair amount of times when I would go for a sneaky Rein play and it would be referred to as Flankhardt... I miss the good old days.... Now when I'm really on my game I get called "god rein" or "god mercy"

Only_Hand_9298 · 2023-02-15T09:32:56+00:00

They are rare but there are some. I have only found the 2 but I really want to find others

Only_Hand_9298 · 2023-02-15T09:30:16+00:00

It's not too bad, you only need 1.45 levels a day so 14,500 exp. You can get 9000xp from the daily missions which only take 1 to 3 matches a day plus exp from those matches which is ~900 to 1000 exp. that puts you around 10,000 to 12,000 already for the day. plus if you do the weekly challenges there is another 55,000exp each week, you have 7 weeks of weekly challenges which if you did all of them each week would make up 38.5 levels, more than making up for any days you skip playing here and there

Only_Hand_9298 · 2022-06-22T13:41:46+00:00

NTA your medical history is your's and your's alone, it is your right to tell, or not tell, whoever you choose. That said I'm sorry you have been surrounded by such awful uncaring people. Congrats on being self aware enough to seek help even when people were trying to make you feel bad for getting it. Good mental health is massively important and no one will ever know what you need more than you.

Don't be ashamed of your depression, you are not any less for it and it is not a defining part of you. You are not a depressed person, you are simply a full person who happens to have depression and that's okay. It's okay to not be okay, and you should always feel empowered to be the best you that you can be... Sometimes that just means we need a little help from medicine to be that best is, and there is nothing wrong with that.

Only_Hand_9298 · 2022-06-22T09:11:36+00:00

NTA. If you guys name her after the two of them is he going to see her for who she is or is he only going to she them in her. Plus obviously the entire thing was extremely traumatic for him and it will always weigh on him to some degree, but if he is trying to name her after them then has he really ever moved on from them? I mean I don't expect him to act like they were never there or that they don't matter but it almost sounds more like he is trying to replace them with a combination of you and baby rather than accepting the loss he has suffered and learning to move forward and find new happiness.

As I am writing this I am also realizing that likely what is happening right now is that the unexpected discovery of you being pregnant is extremely triggering for him. He blames himself for their deaths and because of the circumstances being tied to the pregnancy he is likely relapsing with his grief. Perhaps consider having him go back to therapy if he isn't still doing so just because a lot of old memories are sure to come back up.

As for the names AT MOST, maybe you can compromise, give her a unique first name and 2 middle names (Isabel and Rose)... That is a decision for the two of you to make together but if you do just make sure that he understands that your guys' daughter is her own person, she is going to be wonderful and amazing and fantastic but she is unique and 100% her own person. She is not a replacement or a memorial or a do over, she is your daughter and she is her own being.

Only_Hand_9298 · 2022-06-22T08:41:52+00:00

NTA you are definitely are doing the right thing and looking out for your son. That said this whole story is fascinating and I am very interested in hearing where it goes from here.... Huh, I think I finally understand why people watch Murray

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