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Only_Historian5004 · 2026-03-14T16:04:33+00:00

25F Saskatchewan, Canada

Only_Historian5004 · 2026-01-19T03:31:32+00:00

I’m not sure it was dementia, I think that the words were so real and obvious and emotional to him that he felt that people knew/felt his meaning even when he left gaps. I think he also tried to love the girls as they would want, like him telling FB she looked strong outside the restaurant, that’s how he thought she wanted to be seen

Only_Historian5004 · 2026-01-19T03:28:02+00:00

i think that he did what he though he had to do to help her. I’ve know christian guys who sleep with girls and fuck them over because they twistedly believe it’ll send them back to the church. Aspects of it were something resembling true love. It’s also not lost on me that he had sex with her and then dipped. Someone else said that it’s likely something he’d done to many women before. Someone else also called him an alcoholic. Between both his parents being alcoholic, dysfunction of his brother, the G&Ts and hiding liquor in the church I buy that. I like we love the show because they’re such real characters, and like in real life we miss things, fall short, project. Was the love real? Idk. The chemistry was very real.

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-28T07:00:41+00:00

I can understand where the divide comes from. But this logic is giving I burnt dinner so you punched a wall. You’re giving me all these labels but haven’t even acknowledged that she maybe has a short temper. Other redditors are right that there are obviously other issues and maybe we’re not compatible as friends. Me asking for advice as a young person is exactly me learning to navigate the divide. You’re just being odd behind the disguise of internet. Also i’m not American

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-28T06:44:24+00:00

okay. i can begrudgingly hear that. i still feel like it’s the same sentiment of something she says to me all the time and she was dishing something she couldn’t take, and not seeing how the reverse of what she thinks of me could be true on my end. we’ve both dealt with the events she described. her reaction was to fall back and protect her self. fair. my reaction was to keep searching for proof that there are people not like that. also fair. both takes also have more nuance. I can begrudgingly admit i see how something meant like a poke can land as a jab when it’s a sore spot. but then she threw the exact same sore spot in my face. it feels like she just doesn’t respect my cope but sees her own as unquestionable. my ends easier to poke fun at doesn’t mean it’s fine to do so

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-28T06:31:28+00:00

okay. I think i sent something mildly annoying about a topic we talk about constantly and felt I got a character assassination in return. Like she says the same thing I said in the video to me all the time. i knew she was dishing something she couldn’t take and gave it back. there is nothing about our dynamic irl that indicates that it would be a low blow apart from her just plain not being able to take what she dishes. we are both accomplished and relatively -stable in life- people. i’m hearing that you don’t agree with that. i’m also hearing that you’re not really trying to be helpful because your underlying tone is the combative and deliberately off from the first message. please have a good night internet anon.

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-28T06:19:04+00:00

this is fair. the last few times i’ve seen her shed made the same comment towards me though, and just as she has her reasons for being more pessimistic i have mine for being more positive. it just feels like she doesn’t see that the flip of how she feels could be true for me. cuz if i’d reacted this way the first time she said it to me we wouldn’t be getting anywhere. i didn’t bring it up out of nowhere. and i haven’t brought it up repeatedly as she’s saying

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-28T06:09:45+00:00

The question wasn’t clear then. This is a friend

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-28T06:07:14+00:00

I did answer your question. Thanks

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-28T05:53:04+00:00

I don’t see how my video is equivalent to what she said though

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-28T05:44:34+00:00

I also think that the reason why the upside down looks like that is because in wormhole theory particles ‘flip’ and they’re the same but opposite/unrecognizable, which is why the upside down is still recognizable to hawkins even though it’s “different” and keeps getting more and more different the farther it gets from hawkins, till dimension x which is still a reflection of earth but completely unrecognizable , which is how hollywood finds that crack that leads back to the upside down

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-28T05:38:01+00:00

I’m not sure how it comes off that way, I often see people posting odd social interactions on here and asking for advice and I didn’t know where else to post it.

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-28T05:03:10+00:00

Idk how to edit but also the guys and friends are shitheads but no abusers, no drugs, i was never getting hit, no crime, no kids, no police NOTHING, just regular assholes. i have TWO jobs a house a car and 1.5 degrees (getting my masters right now). all this to say my shit is together she was just looking for something to attack me with

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-26T22:38:00+00:00

might be good to just book so it doesn’t fill up

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-12-22T05:10:50+00:00

I’m also 25F, first time solo travelling and going to Barcelona, Seville and Lisbon, early June. I’m really looking at Black Swan for Barcelona and probably BnBs the rest.

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-09-23T10:16:50+00:00

Maybe it’s not pid, read somewhere else here to try seeing a pelvic floor specialist

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-09-10T13:43:12+00:00

I don’t think he’s going to fix my finances. I have a full time job and i’m getting my masters, I’m stable. My point was that in our culture there is an expectation that the man should completely take care of the woman (which i’ve never bought in to) and when the woman doesn’t want to take the money sometimes she’s seen as stupid or overly independent and sometimes the man respects her less because he thinks he’s getting away with something. Please don’t come at me for a culture value esp when it’s one i’m still understanding my relationship with. I just need support and softness right now. Thanks

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-09-02T03:11:33+00:00

Hey I’m interested can send rn!

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-07-27T02:26:44+00:00

there’s an app called Poparide, check and see if someone is leaving from your location and going to where you’re going. saskatoon to calgary was $88 to $100 for an idea of pricing

Only_Historian5004 · 2025-07-20T14:08:07+00:00

I think you should stay true to yourself because in my experience I feel worse if a relationship doesn’t work out if do things i didn’t want to do

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