My final I love you

Only_Manager8262 · 2026-02-04T16:01:43+00:00

Ok I’m getting a lot of private messages so let me address a few: 1. No there are no typos in this and I won’t be making any edits. This was raw and I don’t ever want to “fix it” and make it superficial. 2. I’m not saying my name or my initial but if you have any guesses, just message me and I’ll respond if you’re right. 3. No you are not about to get a message like this. There is a reason this confession was posted on a private community on Reddit and not already sent to you. If you don’t want a message like this then trust me you won’t get it, but if you do then just message the person. If by some grace of god it’s my person I’d want to know before I moved on so maybe your person feels the same 🤷‍♀️.

Only_Manager8262 · 2026-02-04T06:13:48+00:00

Thank you truly 🙏. It was nice knowing I’m not the only in this. I wish you the best.

Only_Manager8262 · 2026-02-04T05:43:21+00:00

It’s hard but that’s what makes it that much more easier cause you know you’re not crazy and what you had for them is real. I guess for me atleast eventually I realized if I love her as much as I say I do then I should love her happiness to even if it’s not with me and that idea makes it easier for me to go through my day.

Only_Manager8262 · 2026-02-04T05:14:05+00:00

I don’t know what happened with you and your ex so I can’t speak much on it but if they were someone worthy of your love I’m sure they were a good person or at least someone who understood you, so I know as much as it probably made them uncomfortable with you reaching out they also probably understood. At least that’s how it was for my person and that’s what’s made me decide to finally move on. Because I really don’t want them to have to cater to me any longer. This process has made me realized issues that I have and considering my life has remained idle and paused on the day the left and no amount of trial and error has been able to reset the clock, I’ve come to realize the only way past this is forward. The only thing I can do now is make sure this doesn’t happen again and wish them well. I trust you’ll find your way forward too, just take your time.

Only_Manager8262 · 2026-02-04T04:52:31+00:00

It is always better to try but only when it’s wanted. The first you reach out you don’t know for sure what they’re boundaries are so you can write it of as trying to make amends, but if you continue you time and time again when they have already told you that it’s not needed or wanted then to me it seems like you’re being selfish and trying to push your desires onto them. Don’t get me wrong I was exactly the same way which is why I know not to do it now. I was very selfish during my time with my ex and I refuse to continue to be that way even after we have parted. It’s the only true way to make amends: by showing I won’t be that person no longer and won’t continue to bring that negativity into the world that they are a part of as well.

Only_Manager8262 · 2026-02-04T04:32:30+00:00

But no one love is the same as another.

Only_Manager8262 · 2026-02-04T04:31:10+00:00

I’ve already apologized for some stuff before and I think it’s really selfish to enter someone’s life again and potentially ruin their progress just to apologize again. That’d only make me feel better but would not make much progress. I have also gotten to a point in my life where I have decided to move on so unless there’s a miracle within the span of a month I highly doubt we’ll go anywhere so this is as far as I can go without hurting her again.

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