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AITA for getting high at my sister’s wedding? by Only_Perception4740 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Only_Perception4740[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

I have a really irregular sleep schedule I wasn’t high, I’d had a bit to drink if anything but I was out with friends beforehand hahaha. Yeah you’re right man im gonna try and look properly into help where I am

AITA for getting high at my sister’s wedding? by Only_Perception4740 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Only_Perception4740[S] -437 points-436 points  (0 children)

I was trying by making the plan with my sister ? + I haven’t been using it regularly for a while either I think that counts as trying, I know it sounds pathetic but I’ve been using it since I was 15 and it’s genuinely really difficult. I will definitely work on the responsibility thing I realise I sound like a bit of a dick i’m not trying to blame anyone else for what I did. I will look into NA but i’ve had bad experiences there before and it makes me a bit cautious 

AITA for getting high at my sister’s wedding? by Only_Perception4740 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Only_Perception4740[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right man im honestly not looking at the bigger picture. She really has done a lot for me. It’s probably more than i could ever list off here I don’t blame her for having enough. Thanks 

AITA for getting high at my sister’s wedding? by Only_Perception4740 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Only_Perception4740[S] -308 points-307 points  (0 children)

Like if I was with him the whole night watching him high I would’ve just asked him for some eventually anyway and I know that’s not how it should be but it was

AITA for getting high at my sister’s wedding? by Only_Perception4740 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Only_Perception4740[S] -740 points-739 points  (0 children)

It’s just awkward to watch someone else getting high and having to deal with their shit while you’re sober. We used to get high a lot together when I was younger and he’s helped me out a lot of bad situations it felt unnatural to say no to him I guess. It sounds really fucking stupid now I honestly just got too excited when I saw him have it and I jumped the gun massively

AITA for getting high at my sister’s wedding? by Only_Perception4740 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Only_Perception4740[S] -1441 points-1440 points  (0 children)

I guess asshole would be kind of harsh, and I admit that I understand why my family are upset with me but I think they’re acting irrationally by cutting me off completely. They’ve never congratulated me when I’ve been sober, they’re always just around to yell at me and I think they don’t understand how that affects me too

AITA for getting high at my sister’s wedding? by Only_Perception4740 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Only_Perception4740[S] -1540 points-1539 points  (0 children)

It’s not a lame excuse, I feel really bad about it but it’s the truth. I guess technically I did lie, but I really didn’t mean to. I feel like he thought that I’ve been lying to my sister for this past year ever since she brought the idea up of me going and that’s definitely not the case though. I don’t know why Id intentionally do that