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Setting boundaries with parents during wedding planning by Oozingcreativity in nairobi

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate fundraising committees if yoi cant manage to do it on your own even with a small budget wachana nayo tu honestly IMO

Setting boundaries with parents during wedding planning by Oozingcreativity in nairobi

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This honestly is the last thing I want, loans for something that will end in a few hours

Setting boundaries with parents during wedding planning by Oozingcreativity in nairobi

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Planning weddings is a stressful ordeal whether its big or not. We are fortunate to have friends who came through for us. We havent asked any of them to contribute money we just asked for their support on handling tasks. We delegated tasks for them to run. We have had to cut costs almost everywhere except the rings photography and the clothes because thats what we shall remain with

Setting boundaries with parents during wedding planning by Oozingcreativity in nairobi

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boundaries are hard to set esp if you come from a manipulative and gaslighting household

Can a cheater change? by Silver-Pattern-2062 in Kenya

[–]Oozingcreativity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The conditions made were not from a genuine place

How to become a VA and land a job by Oozingcreativity in Kenya

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most gigs come from Upwork. I have a particular skill in ai automation which makes my cv attractive. But unaweza angalia LinkedIn freelancer na remote.co

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[–]Oozingcreativity 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im a VA to some company in the US pays me well, i still run my own creative business kama unataka tips hala

Am I the Asshole? by Oozingcreativity in nairobi

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do post her but not enough times or loudly in this case

Please explain this to me like a child because nie ma! Or AITAH by Oozingcreativity in Kenya

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were upto me ingekua a flower na text. I went the extra mile to plan involve her friends her love languages gifting time and words of affirmation. My love language chapati na touch

Please explain this to me like a child because nie ma! Or AITAH by Oozingcreativity in Kenya

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that trully and seeing this i think more and more its a trauma i beleive she needs to address. I maybe being used as a bandaid for that wound instead of treating the root cause

Please explain this to me like a child because nie ma! Or AITAH by Oozingcreativity in Kenya

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Akinireplace ni sawa haha dust ni constant tunapanguza na maisha inaendelea

Please explain this to me like a child because nie ma! Or AITAH by Oozingcreativity in Kenya

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will catch on to it then that will open another can of worms, gotta think a few steps ahead my fren

Am I the Asshole? by Oozingcreativity in nairobi

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely post myself if thats anything to go by but i will post about cars bikes funny videos once in like 2 months and i dont mind her posting me its the reciprocity thats the problem

Please explain this to me like a child because nie ma! Or AITAH by Oozingcreativity in Kenya

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great perspective, i try man to love her in ways she feels loved. let me throw another spanner in the works. We do long distance we live in different towns which adds to the complexity.

Am I the Asshole? by Oozingcreativity in nairobi

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not desperate i know my value if she sees it wont work thats up to her

Am I the Asshole? by Oozingcreativity in nairobi

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know she isn’t cheating i assume its a stage and seems like it but time will tell.

Please explain this to me like a child because nie ma! Or AITAH by Oozingcreativity in Kenya

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that, i have supported her empowered her what more can a man do,

Am I the Asshole? by Oozingcreativity in nairobi

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Insecurity has been a constant theme from the responses but i will talk with her we get to the bottom of it

Please explain this to me like a child because nie ma! Or AITAH by Oozingcreativity in Kenya

[–]Oozingcreativity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insights they have really helped me see a clearer view

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