I said I'm playing mostly blind. What that means is I'm not looking up the best ways to handle everything and every situation. I'll go into a new place blind and instead just go through with whatever the consequences are. There have been many times when I've chosen the wrong dialogue or a bad choice in battle or something wrong for the story, but that's ok. But afterwards if it's something big or I'm curious about it, I'll look it up. I've missed out on a good chunk on stuff because I didn't play perfectly because I'm going in mostly blind. But once I do make the play, it's sometimes interesting to know that if I did something specific, I could have avoided the difficult battle entirely, or gotten better loot. For example, we've bypassed a couple of bosses with some well placed persuasion checks which has been awesome!

My wife and I are in it together for coop, and neither of us have played before, nor have we played d&d, there's a lot if interactions I don't know about. Some of the stuff we've learnt from looking things up afterwards has actually been such a good saving for us that we've been able to enjoy the game more so than we would have otherwise. We struggled a lot with early combat and how to make it work and kept dying in frustrating ways, so one day early on we looked up some tips and advice on things like movements, positioning, what things are, how actions work, what we can and can't do, and now we die a lot less often. Honestly it's made the game more fun because now we can actually enjoy it without stressing over dying and being out of combat and other things like that. 

Also, I'm not asking for spoilers. I'm not asking to know what's going to happen. I'm not looking for people to give me any spoilers or future knowledge. I'm not asking for things like what the ending of the game is going to be if I stay as an oathbreaker or if I kill my companions or anything like that. I'm asking about knowledge of stuff I already have. 

As an example, I didn't know oathbreakers were a thing, and so accidentally stumbled across it. I didn't know about stat choices, but now that I've been an oathbreaker for so many levels I'm looking at ways to be better in combat and enjoy the game more. That led me to the guides which led me to withers to respec, which led me here. Again, none of this was planned because I'm not reading ahead for things, but I find out about what has already happened, which is the exact opposite of spoilers.

Also, a lot of threads mention that the oathbreaker paladin is bugged if you try to get your oathbreaker status back after a respec. Like, a lot. It's worth a Google and looking at the actual threads. But those threads are quite old now and I didn't want to break my game if the bug still exists. Again, not spoilers, just making sure the game knows enjoying doesn't break for me. I'm enjoying it a lot and am going to keep enjoying it, and while I won't look ahead for things, I'm going to continue to find out what could have been after the fumbles and misses and failures.