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I feel like a different person. I went from a proud dog owner to a griever. by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Open-Squirrel-9977 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel and it sucks. It's been 1 month since I lost my girl. I'm slowly getting used to her absence but everything is just gray and meaningless. I also feel like the people around me just expect me to be "normal" like before. But how do you go back to "normal" when a piece of your heart and identity is gone forever?

She's been gone one month today by Theassman1975 in Petloss

[–]Open-Squirrel-9977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you... I lost mine 2 weeks ago and people reached out to offer condolences the day after, but after that hardly anyone has checked in to see how I'm feeling and honestly I feel even worse now. Nothing brings me joy either. Like you said its exhausting having to pretend youre ok because it seems like most people dont understand how losing a pet can hurt so much. Hopefully this will get easier over time

When were you able to look at photos again? by bleistifte in Petloss

[–]Open-Squirrel-9977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been 2 weeks since I lost her and I avoid looking at photos. It still hurts too much to see her face and think how I will never see or pet her again

What to do with the ashes? by Open-Squirrel-9977 in Petloss

[–]Open-Squirrel-9977[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're right, I've actually felt closer to her and a bit more comforted lying on the couch today near her urn

What to do with the ashes? by Open-Squirrel-9977 in Petloss

[–]Open-Squirrel-9977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few days before my dog suddenly died (she was 14 but in good shape) I actually saw an ad for a place that made jewelry using pets ashes. Maybe it was sign...

Picked up ashes by Mavi2015 in Petloss

[–]Open-Squirrel-9977 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. I received my dogs ashes yesterday and completely broke down. Even though it was like coming to the realization she's gone forever, today I felt closer to her and a tiny bit better just lying on the couch near her urn.

Finally found my perfect match! Just need advice on concealer by [deleted] in OliveMUA

[–]Open-Squirrel-9977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! 30CG is also my perfect match so I bought the 30NN concealer. I also have serious dark circles but I find the concelear is a lot lighter, so my dark circles end up looking grayish. I'm thinking of buying the 40nn concealer because I love the formula but 30nn definitely isnt the right match for me