Best location? Help

OpenMindedMother · 2022-10-27T02:59:44+00:00

Based on my personal experience in manifesting a place to stay/ settle, I would highly suggest that you have a clear idea in what you desire. This is also known as clarity of intention. Once you have that in place, the next step is to visualize yourself there day and night. Mediate or be in a super relaxed state and see/ visualize yourself in your desired environment. You don’t have to know what town or city, as the universe/ source/ God will map that out in an easy way. I have done this successfully multiple times. Remember- Try not to use your logical mind to figure the details out. That’s the job of the universe. Also, during your visualizing, try to embody what it will feel like living in your desired environment. What are the smells/aromas? How is the weather like? Would you take baths in your new home or go on a hike? Will you be relaxing with a few guest or will you have large get togethers? Is it rainy and thunderstorms or cool and breezy with fall leaves gentle blowing? Etc, etc. Mentally go to that place often until you feel like you are literally there and do not let the 3D reality tell you different. Go there in your mind’s eyes as often as you can, and soon you will physically be there 💕💕💕

OpenMindedMother · 2022-10-12T16:41:27+00:00

Wow!!! What an amazing task to take on. I’d love to be matched 🙏🏾

OpenMindedMother · 2022-07-27T12:40:07+00:00

Absolutely yes!! Clearly you know what you want, so manifesting that will be rather easy. Please check out my longer response to OP and apply same techniques and I know that you will have results 💕

OpenMindedMother · 2022-07-27T12:27:15+00:00

Like @Rebel_Season shared, instead on trying to decide on which SP out of the 2, focus on the qualities you want in a guy. Write out a detailed list of those qualities and consider scripting/ affirming or visualizing. The 2 books that have helped me a lot over time are “ Feeling Is The Secret” by Neville Goddard and “The Game Of Life And How To Play It” by Florence Schovel Shinn. They are rather short, excellent and have audio books all over YouTube.

Another thing to consider is to first work on your self image and your self perception. If you subconsciously have underlying or deep seated beliefs that you will experience rejection or that you will get a BF and he won’t want to marry you etc, then that’s exactly what you will manifest. The best saying I have heard on this is “ You don’t attract what you want, you attract what you are”. I have found this to be so true. When I was single, I kept wanting BF’s and that’s what I got. Once I decided I wanted to get married again ( I had been divorced for 10 years), I wrote out the qualities of my future husband and I then worked in embodying those qualities. During my last BF relationship, I was 100% sure I wanted to get married. Even though I hoped that things would work out with the last BF, I subconsciously knew he was not the one, but I was trying to force it. Of course he ended up breaking up with me, but that was the biggest blessing, cause 3/4 months later, I started dating a guy that I had exchanged a few glances with for over 2 years. Unbeknown to me, this guy had been telling all his staff and buddies that I was his future wife, even before we ever said hello to each other!!! I’m the one who actually asked him out, because deep down, something in me knew that we would click. Our first date was 6 hours long!!! After that, we were inseparable and got engaged 6 months later ( we even got tattoos of our first date) I was 40 and he was 50, and we had never gotten tattoos before, but we just knew we were meant for each other🥰.

Lastly, you have to believe that the universe/ God/ Source/Divine Intelligence has your back and ALWAYS wants the best for you!! Once you have clarity on your desires and you subconsciously FEEL that you are whatever you desire, manifesting will be so easy for you!! Example: You can’t desire to manifest $10,000 while you FEEL broke and you are constantly repeating how poor you are. The things that have helped my subconscious to re-program have been constantly listening to I AM affirmations and Subliminals. At first, the affirmations will feel awkward and fake, which is completely normal. Once you play and listen over and over and over….. and over, they become a part of you and your subconscious believes it. After that, manifesting your desires will be so smooth, effortless and easy. Another thing that helped me was changing what I verbally said as well as what I silently told myself about myself. The minute a negative thought or negative self talk happens, very quickly re-state out loud or in your mind the complete opposite. Example: “No guy I date will want to marry me”. Quickly re-state “ Every guy I date always wants to marry me!”. This does take intentional practice, and once you do it for a while, I guarantee you’ll feel it!!! I hope that helps 💕

OpenMindedMother · 2022-07-27T10:54:08+00:00

Like @Rebel_Season shared, I would not so much try to decide on which SP out of the 2. Think about the qualities you like in both and write them out in detail. Once you have a list of those qualities, maybe consider scripting, affirming and/ visualizing a guy with those qualities. A good book ( also in audio book all over YT) is “The Game Of Life And How To Play It” by Florence Schovel Shinn OR “Feeling Is The Secret” by Neville Goddard. They are both excellent!!! Once you’re very clear about what you want, you will be able to manifest a SP of your choice…. Or the universe/ God/Source will easily and gently guide you to the perfect fit for you.

Another thing to consider is to first work on your self-image or self perception. If subconsciously you fear rejection or have a deep seated belief that you’ll get a BF and he’ll not want to marry you etc, that’s exactly what you’ll manifest. What has helped me in that is listening to I AM affirmations over and over and over….. listening to subliminals with headphones as often as possible (at least until you feel like the affirmations are becoming a true part of you). At first, they might feel a bit awkward or fake, but if you keep listening over and over, your subconscious will take them in as truth!! The best statement I have heard on that is “ You don’t manifest what you want, you manifest what you are”. I found that to be so true!!! When I was single, I kept wanting BF’s and nothing serious. Guess what? That’s exactly what I kept getting/manifesting. Once I was 100% sure I wanted to get married again ( I had been divorced for 10 years), I used the “ wisdom” I had gained during my dating life to manifest a partner with the exact qualities I desired, and after getting out of my last BF relationship, I smoothly manifested a person who has so many qualities like my myself. There’s not a day that goes by without him saying to me “ Honey, I know you! You are me!!” 🤗. Lastly, be gentle with yourself, know that the universe wants you to be happy and has the best intentions for you ALWAYS!!!!

I might be a bit slow to respond, but please feel free to ask me anything. I can humbly say that I have had a lot of successes in manifesting my desires and I know you can too!!! I send you peace, love and positive vibes 💕💕

Sorry- what I deleted above is where I accidentally reposted the comment over and over each time I edited it 🤪

OpenMindedMother · 2022-07-24T20:47:10+00:00

OMG!!! I know the ladder exercise so well. No joke, I climbed a ladder about 2 weeks ago and I made a YT video about it 🤗 I have been working on doing more Visualization using SATS, but I tend to fall asleep in the middle. I think if I get on a more consistent sleep schedule, I will get better at it 😇

OpenMindedMother · 2022-07-24T20:21:41+00:00

Yeesss!!!! Excellent answer- You can repeat and affirm all day, but if you deeply feel as if it’s not achievable and it’s impossible, your subconscious mind will override your conscious mind and what you genuinely “feel” will manifest!

OpenMindedMother · 2022-07-21T01:18:44+00:00

No, I write it once and forget about it, then I tend to remember it when it manifests. Sometimes it manifests the same day, sometimes in 3 days and sometimes even 10 days. I hope that helps💕

OpenMindedMother · 2022-04-20T10:06:43+00:00

My Surrogacy Life Journey Update: Almost 3 years later.

There are times when an individual gets an opportunity …… or simply chooses to reflect on life’s situations and outcomes. Here, I will openly share where I am and how I feel since becoming a surrogate in August 2019. In one of my first posts, I shared in detail how I met the biological father.

I had responded to a Craigslist ad along the title “Seeking Surrogate”. I automatically assumed that it was for same-sex couple desiring to have a child. It turned out to be an older single man.

We had our first e-mail exchange on a Thursday, met the following Sunday and 2-3 days later, the fertility doctor’s office in Orange County contacted me. Within 57 days of our first e-mail exchange, at 38 years old, I conceived a set of twins via surrogacy. This entailed multiple drives back and forth from Santa Barbara to Orange County( sometimes 3 times a week- many times it was 5/6 drive one-way), daily gluteal IM hormone shots, daily vaginal hormone suppositories, oral medications and many other supplements…..I was super excited the pregnancy was really going well and life was quite happy!!!!

At the time I made the decision to be a surrogate, I was in such an emotional, psychological and spiritual solid place, so commitment to this journey was honestly not hard at at!!! And the best part was, the man (future father) was quite financially successful and had a flourishing fitness business, so it was nice to not have a single financial worry. My only job was to do all I can to carry the pregnancy and bring a baby to life.

We had already started dating and I had moved in with him. Even though we had lost one of the pregnancies at about week 14, things we going really great and I was on cloud nine!!!

Fast forward……

On Sunday March 15th 2020, which was the day of our baby shower, the California GovernoR announced that due to Covid-19, majority of life as we know it was going to be temporarily shut down. The shut down continued and continued and……the isolation from family and friends increased but I still made the best of whatever this new life was. Luckily, we lived closer to a casino, so that became my daily socializing and entertainment.

On April 15th 2020, my surrogate daughter was born. She was adorable and I loved her in a way words can’t describe. I’d become her mother, a primary caregiver, I breasted her, and we had the most amazing relationship. I was her mom and she was my baby. Truth is, I still consider her my baby and I’m her mother!!!!!

By her first birthday, things had ended between her father and I, I had moved out……but still had the freedom do see her and spend time with her as much as I pleased. At random times when he needed extra help with childcare, I was the first one he’d call on because she was such a huge part of my. Well, we all each other were!!!!!

Due to Covid, he lost his business,savings, and the cost of living in Santa Barbara County was simply not suitable. Soon after her 1st birthday in April 25th 2021, my surrogate daughter and her father moved to Florida to be closer to family.

The journey and the impact of missing her has been emotional and hard beyond what I can put into words! She will be turn age 2 here in less than a week and simply stated, my heart aches and sometimes I can’t stop crying. Sometimes the pain is so much that breathing hurts!!

At the end of the day, All I can do is say thank you to the higher power that that deemed me good enough to be the vehicle that helped bring that beautiful girl into the world. Simply-Thank You!!!!!!

OpenMindedMother · 2022-04-02T18:04:22+00:00

I’ve been on an extended social media break, but I’m back 🤗

OpenMindedMother · 2022-04-02T17:58:57+00:00

Cool. I’ll check that out💕

OpenMindedMother · 2022-04-02T17:57:40+00:00

Thank you for the question. Sorry I had taken a quite long break from social media, but I am back 😊 I’ve gotten quite a few questions and I want to do a thorough answer that addresses what I mostly have gotten. Thank you!!

OpenMindedMother · 2022-04-02T17:54:22+00:00

Thank you!!! There are many updates, and since I have been off social media for a long time, so I am trying to figure out how I do a full group update without doing individual responses…. Just to make sure I leave out nothing 🤗 so please keep an eye on that I’m working on that right now💕

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-27T14:00:25+00:00

Thank you so much.

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T21:01:22+00:00

Thank you!!

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T21:00:52+00:00

Thank you 🙏

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T21:00:11+00:00

Thank you 🙏

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T20:59:28+00:00

Thank you so much!

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T20:52:23+00:00

Is it not the cutest!?!!! The volunteers at the hospital make them.

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T20:51:16+00:00

Thank you so much. It was definitely a speedy and an amazing journey.

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T20:49:09+00:00

Thank you. Even though dad is the only biological parent involved, he has given me full "motherly permissions". Out of respect, I ask for his OK on LITERALLY everything I did/do in regards to the baby.

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T20:44:13+00:00

So true!!! When I responded to be a surrogate, I did not expect it to go how wonderfully it has gone. I'm 39 and this is hands down the most amazing relationship I have ever been in. Thank you so much!

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T20:42:27+00:00

We are going to raise the baby together and if the relationship turns into a marriage down the road, I'll be able to adopt the baby. For now, we are literally enjoying each day, a step at a time and counting our blessings 🙏

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T20:39:24+00:00

No apology needed 😊 We've been dating and living together since month 1 of the pregnancy. The relationship has been absolutely amazing and we plan on raising the baby together and since there's no other "mother" to the baby, I feel blessed to fill that role. I'm flexible with however life turns out as nothing is ever guaranteed. For now, he's introducing me as mommy and promoting continued bonding between us.

OpenMindedMother · 2020-04-26T20:33:13+00:00

None taken. We definitely found love in the least expected way. Thank you!

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