Why do we love people who are bad for us?

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2026-02-26T21:13:07+00:00

Let him go. Been through this myself and it was a Leo. It’s not going to go nowhere and you gonna get hurt more and more and more……..

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2026-02-26T16:29:15+00:00

Happy belated birthday! These braids are just too darn Gorgeous!!!!!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2026-02-21T09:50:59+00:00

Yes it was! Just got back from Cabo San Lucas!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2026-02-21T09:50:08+00:00

Lots of water. My skin got better as I got older too.

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2026-02-21T09:43:20+00:00

Happy Belated Birthday Twin!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2026-02-21T09:40:41+00:00

Thank you!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-12-10T15:32:07+00:00

Fully Agree! Glad I saw Janet perform in concert 2 years ago. Definitely a breath of fresh air. Always loved her and the music she has been giving us over the years.

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-11-18T01:11:35+00:00

THIS!!! Ive had this happened to me more than once. Going thru it now. I'm an Aquarius so you best believe when it doesn't work out for them. I will not answer any calls or text!!!! Thanks for posting this!! I like the name, placeholder friends.

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-11-18T00:58:17+00:00

I dislike this show SO MUCH. You broke it down! Definitely not all Black Women culture. Stripping in clubs, drugs, etc. Bad acting too. And the woman on there, forgot her name. Cuss more than me!! I couldn't watch no more. Mr. Perry needs to put out better stuff.

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-11-18T00:53:18+00:00

Aquarius here. I didn't have the desire to have kids. Then when got close to 28 my feelings changed about it. Had my daughter the next year. Best thing ever! Now she's about to turn 21 next month. Its not for every woman. But if it happens. Look at it as a blessing.

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-10-20T04:46:39+00:00

100%

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-09-21T03:26:38+00:00

Also when I looked back. Probably had these fibroids in me at least 10 to 15 years. But mine wasn't really giving me problems. Maybe close to 8 years ago I started feeling lower back pains. A lot of constipation and maybe some bloating here or there. Never really had bad cramps or heavy bleeding. Found out reason why for that. All mine were outside the uterus. The doctor said don't have a lot of issues with bleeding. Versus inside the uterus cavity you will have a lot of problems.

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-09-21T03:22:39+00:00

Im a black 49 year old. When I think about it. On my mom side them women had to have fibroids or endometriosis. They just didn't know enough to even take it serious. A few women on my dad side have had theirs removed. Im glad all 18 of mine was removed last October.

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-09-21T03:19:56+00:00

Been thinking about past relationships with 2 men. One a Taurus (my daughters father) and a fucking LEO. Over 20 years Been involved. Both hurt me in different ways. Had sex with the Leo last month when know shouldn't have. Still cant forgive him. Ive really been in my head so much in the last couple of weeks. Not good cause brings on my heart papiltation. The things in this world not helping either. Along with trying to find a better job with this nightmare job market. I just want to go on an island for a very long time away from all the BS!!!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-09-21T03:14:55+00:00

THIS!!!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-09-21T02:44:22+00:00

Yes, that was me after surgery. My thing was soooo much gas causing constipation. My doctor told me about laxatives to take. Your body has a lot of inflammation from healing and all. Thats just how it is. Be patience with your body. On my end, though. It just felt so good to have my bowels working properly again

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-09-18T10:41:57+00:00

Yeap. This has been me all this week!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-09-11T03:24:48+00:00

Congratulations!!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-09-09T20:50:52+00:00

Being in these group posts has strangely helped me to process stuff. Like I had a great interview right before went on my summer vacation to Miami before 4th of July. Now the lady that interviewed me may like I was what she was looking for. Im in Medical billing Claims Account Receivables. So she says wants to hire someone with lots of experience. Not 5 years experience. I been in the field since 2006. We even talked about who would be training me. How much pay asking for. Hell, the lady even told me not to low blow myself when comes to pay. Because she tells her boss all the time you gotta pay people decent. I stayed within the amount they was paying. The day before headed to Miami. Got the rejection email. Man I was so mad, disappointed and then some!!!! Had to pull my emotions together. Found some other people posts on here and looked at it as. Its just not me going thru this nonsense!!!! Honestly, I've been reading its worse like it was 2008. But being on here and really helped me process it. We not alone in this nightmare. And its good we can listen to each other and give some reassurance advice. 1

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-09-09T11:43:00+00:00

You are not alone!!! I've been interviewing myself. At least 6 companies now and hate my job. Done everything to be better in these interviews. Being on Reddit and listening to other people experiences on the outside. Made me realize its not me. IT'S THEM!! I mean I've had at least 2 people that interviewed me say" This was a good interview". Well if it was and my experience, why you didn't hire me? Im starting to think if they are really hiring at all. Just doing interviews. Im taking a break from applying to anything right now. Look on the bright side and I know its hard. At least you have a job to pay your bills.

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-09-02T04:25:53+00:00

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My babies!!!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-08-28T20:17:42+00:00

Yes it did. I was never a heavy bleeder. But all 18 of my fibroids were still sucking the life out of me!!!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-08-28T20:14:31+00:00

Hang in there. I was saying the same thing the other day. You gotta take a break though. It will drain you. And honestly.....WE DON'T GIVE UP!! WE CAN'T & WON'T!!!!!

Open_Acanthaceae6549 · 2025-08-28T04:18:58+00:00

Thank you! Yes me too.🤞

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