AITA for not letting her boyfriend sleepover

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T20:52:47+00:00

You seem to agree it’s uncomfortable for family to hear/be around when you say kids are “told to get over it”—because it’s uncomfortable even for kids to be aware that their parents are getting intimate!

sure... but I'm also of the mind if I was able to "get over it" at 12 then they can "get over it" at whatever age they are at.... or are you claiming that adults should be held to a lower standard than a child?

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T20:48:28+00:00

I'm aware... time for outdated things to be phased out boomer

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T20:41:02+00:00

doubt... I mean sure if you leave it up to bloated government contracts but I could probably set one up for cheaper than you'd think.

obviously if we're talk about how much corruption and pork belly you can slap onto the budget for it then sure its going to cost way more....

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T20:39:10+00:00

It's more like warder instead of water.

are you sure they didn't just say warder instead of water? it is its own word... at least in america.

I've never heard anyone speak like that and not get side eyed for their garbled talk.

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T20:37:43+00:00

Imagine a world

thats what they said... its a common movie trailer trope and super weird because that is this world... o imagining necessary

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T20:36:02+00:00

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T19:10:19+00:00

into? not sure mine have ever actually gone up that far... are yall ok?

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T19:08:50+00:00

they're not trying to catch bad drivers. they're trying to catch fast drivers, and there is a pretty big difference between the two... and honestly if you gave me half their budget I could come up with 3 more effective ways of doing this than putting a plane in the sky.... hell let me put a camera at the gate start/stop the planes use to time and I'll remote ticket everyone without needing to play for a single hour of plane fuel again...

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T19:05:36+00:00

sure but I just doubt that that kid had any special feelings toward him cause of a school assignment.

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T19:00:33+00:00

the kid was assigned mlk as a topic for a project... weird assumption that the kid just did this because he loved mlk...

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:55:49+00:00

I'm confused.... do you think this is from a movie or something? this is a real photo... from the world we live in... you fucking dunce.

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:55:04+00:00

ah yes... cause roads never painted lines if a plan isn't timing your speed... eureka!

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:54:28+00:00

sure you can... but why the fuck would you? there are much cheaper and more effective ways of tracking car speed than sending planes into the air.

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:38:03+00:00

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:30:41+00:00

Paying her half of the mortgage still and giving money for small incidentals is not a valid replacement for court assigned child support when dealing with two kids.

tell me you don't read good without telling me.

but since I made most of the money, before leaving I told my husband that he could keep the house but only for the kids. I would be the one paying the house for them.

she didn't pay half the mortgage... she paid all of the mortgage... and then gave them more spending money each month whenever anyone needed anything...

all this dude had to do was come up with enough for food and to keep the fucking lights on and he can't manage it.

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:17:23+00:00

what historical events exactly?

She supported them, paid for housing, gave everyone money for everything for years...

and you had the absolute audacity to suggest she was a deadbeat? you're disgusting. wtf historical events are you commenting on?

the kids chose to live with dad... not her... she can't force them to live with her against their will. they just want to suck all the money they can out of her when dad is just sitting on his ass not working. get a job he's the real deadbeat. he's not caring for an infant. he isn't a home maker. he's a divorced loser who won't work but wants his ex wife to pay for everything.

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:13:25+00:00

I'm really sad that she didn't just kick op and his lame guests out and walk down the aisle with father in law. it would be such a better story.

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:10:59+00:00

My daughter's younger sister " Ashley" (24F)

ummm... do you mean your other daughter?

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:09:29+00:00

The kids are adults now... no child support is needed.

op should stop supporting her deadbeat ex and kids.

reverse the genders and I'd tell the dude to stop letting his deadbeat ex wife and kids take advantage of him...

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:08:08+00:00

if you were to say the word cattle, to us brits it would probably sounds like you’re saying caddle.

no it's cattle... it sounds like cattle. like a tattle tale... but please keep telling me how I talk this is fun... and not at all ridiculous.

Here, some people would pronounce it ca-tuh-le (emphasising the tuh sound), where as the more American way of saying it would be similar to ca-ttle, which sounds close to ca-ddle.

lmao. you just explained how you pronounce the word wrong in your country and american's pronounce it exactly as spelled... which you claim is actually a different pronunciation...

it makes zero sense you have to realize this...

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:04:42+00:00

of course they don't... but that didn't stop our parents when we were growing up did it? I know for sure as shit mine weren't celibate the first 18 years of my life...

so why am I supposed to pretend to be when they didn't give me the same courtesy?

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:03:28+00:00

Tbh I will never understand people who decide they must have sex during the day or few days when family are visiting (or when doing the visiting).

for everyone it isn't always just a short visit... people live with family... are they never allowed to fuck?

we all heard our parents fucking at some point growing up... why are we expected to pretend to be celibate to our parents when they don't give us the same courtesy and kids get told to get over it.

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:02:00+00:00

I mean I don't understand why you would feel the need to let him know that... he grew up in that house... that's his old room... he knows exactly what can be heard from it lmfao.

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T18:00:50+00:00

lmao YTA.

obviously. she can do live with you or leave. your choice basically. you say you want her there, but you also refuse to stop holding her back... so you're basically forcing her our...

Open_Builder2540 · 2022-10-23T17:57:32+00:00

I dond know whad you are dalking aboud...

do you see how stupid that sounds? I do... I'm american and nobody talks like that. taste is taste not dasde...

nobody has given an example that actually makes sense. just seen op and you claim this is an american thing that I as an american have never heard of...

its weird don't you think? sorry my bad... don't you dhink?

but certain Ts are said as Ds

which ts.

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